Hebrews 13:4 (PHILLIPS)

Both honourable marriage and chastity should be respected by all of you. God himself will judge those who traffic in the bodies of others or defile the relationship of marriage…

Marriage often gets a bad rap, with some people referring to it as a "ball and chain," suggesting matrimony is more imprisonment than partnership. However, contrary to this tired stereotype, research actually shows that married men are happier and live longer. Interestingly, the same doesn't always hold true for women. One key might lie in a simple, scientific intervention: the six-second kiss.

A kiss can strengthen the bond between a married couple, conveying feelings that words sometimes cannot express. Kissing has biological implications as well. When a couple kisses, their brains release chemicals such as oxytocin (the "love hormone"), dopamine (associated with pleasure), and serotonin (which affects mood). These chemicals can enhance feelings of attachment and happiness.

While that might sound like relationship folklore, a brief, intentional kiss can potentially transform that perceived "ball and chain" into a genuine connection. So, instead of joking about being "trapped," invest in a meaningful, six-second kiss for your spouse today. It could be the difference between feeling confined and feeling connected.

PROPHETIC DECLARATION

I decree and declare my marriage is a blessing, not a burden. I honour my spouse, and God’s favour rests upon my marriage. I speak joy, peace, and genuine affection over my marriage in Jesus’ Name. Amen.

FURTHER STUDY

1 Corinthians 7:3