Tanner Vario works in higher education, where he focuses on building meaningful connections through events and community programs. He is originally from Tooele Utah and is openly pansexual/bisexual.

In this episode, Tanner opens up about what it was like growing up non-religious in a community where almost everyone around him was. He shares how that sense of being “othered” shaped his early years and eventually pushed him toward deeper self-reflection. We talk about the importance of taking time for ourselves, prioritizing mental health, and learning who we truly are outside of other people’s expectations.

Tanner also talks about the power of critical thinking and why it’s essential to examine our personal beliefs—where they come from and whether they align with the kind of person we want to become. He shares his experience coming out, his perspective on LGBTQ rights, and how staying openminded can change the way we see each other. And of course, he leaves us with one of his favorite Dr. Seuss quotes: “Those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

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In this episode, I sit down with Yamilia to talk about finding courage and conviction at a young age. Growing up in an immigrant family, Yamilia shares what it was like to live with the constant fear of loved ones being taken away and how those experiences shaped her voice and perspective today. She opens up about learning to speak up for her community, the importance of using the internet as a tool for education rather than division, and encouraging others to do their own research before forming opinions.

We also dive into what it means to stand boldly for what you believe in—especially when those beliefs clash with religion, culture, or politics. Yamilia reflects on how empathy, curiosity, and open-mindedness can bridge even the biggest differences. It’s an honest conversation about fear, resilience, and the power of speaking your truth.

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In this episode, I sit down with Taylor to talk about her journey living with cystic fibrosis and the lessons she’s learned from navigating the healthcare system. Taylor shares how her experiences with illness, service, and community have shaped her into the compassionate person she is today. We discuss the importance of mental health resources for youth, the need for more opportunities for people with disabilities, and the power of simply showing up for others when they need it most.

Taylor also reflects on moments that changed her perspective — from serving those experiencing homelessness to watching her best friend lose her father at a young age. These experiences have strengthened her belief in kindness, connection, and making the most of every day. We close by talking about finding peace in nature, the grounding power of the outdoors, and what it truly means to live with purpose.

For those interested in learning more about Taylor’s cystic fibrosis journey, check out her YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Umnpt5LpYhs&list=PLQ9edpTro6P0YP1fL6_IYWUyI5HeoyUAf

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Britney Masciotti was born and raised in Payson, Utah but currently lives in Salt Lake City with her husband, baby boy, and their 2 dogs. She graduated from Utah Valley University with a degree in Aviation Management.

In this episode, Britney shares her story of growing up in a small town, learning to embrace her culture, and realizing what it means to stand out — and stand up — for what she believes in. She opens up about finding her voice, even when it meant going against the majority, and learning that speaking up can sometimes feel uncomfortable, but it’s always worth it.

We also talk about the “sinking ship” analogy Britney uses to describe our shared responsibility in the world — that we’re all in the same boat, and it’s on each of us to help keep it afloat. From the fears surrounding immigration and family to navigating the grey areas of politics and religion, Britney’s story is one of empathy, courage, and hope.

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Paige Leavitt is a mom or two and an army wife to Matt, who I interviewed last week. She is an out and proud bisexual and loves music, her family, and learning. Paige currently works as a medical assistant (we LOVE to see a women in STEM)! If you haven’t already, make sure to check out my conversation with Matt in the previous episode for another perspective on service, sacrifice, and family values.

In this heartfelt and vulnerable conversation, I sit down with my friend Paige to talk about her journey through the medical field and the passion she found for caring for others, inspired by her mother’s career as a nurse. Paige shares deeply personal experiences with mental health, including postpartum depression and suicide awareness, emphasizing the importance of listening, showing up for one another, and encouraging those in need to seek help.

We also explore broader themes of hope and resilience—how focusing on the good can keep us optimistic in a challenging world, and how family and connection can ground us. Paige reflects on her marriage to Matt, and the ways they navigate life and love despite differing political beliefs, showing that with respect and care, it’s possible to find common ground.

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about mental health, suicide, postpartum depression, and political violence. Please listen with care and reach out for help if you are struggling.

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Matthew Leavitt is a US Army Soldier and is currently deployed in the Middle East. Matt is also a husband and father of 2 beautiful girls.

In this episode, I sit down with my friend Matt, who is currently serving in the U.S. Army. We talk about learning to be open-minded from a young age, and how his conservative values and deep commitment to upholding the Constitution shape his worldview. Matt shares how his service has taught him about sacrifice, leadership, and growth—and why he believes the military can be a powerful path for young people who want to better themselves.

We also dive into how becoming a father has changed the way he thinks about politics and responsibility, pushing him to reevaluate his ideas in light of wanting to keep his daughters safe. Matt emphasizes the importance of family, service, and having real conversations with people who see the world differently—because, as he says, that’s how you gain new perspectives and grow stronger together.

Disclaimer & Trigger Warning: The views expressed in this episode are Matt’s personal beliefs and do not reflect the official views of the U.S. Army or any associated group. This conversation also contains discussion of firearms and mass shootings, which may be triggering for some listeners. Please listen with care.

*Note: This episode was recorded before the recent political violence in Utah (Charlie Kirk’s passing). Because we discuss freedoms, rights, and the issue of mass shootings, I want to acknowledge the timing and make clear that this conversation was not recorded in response to those events.

**Audio note: The sound quality in this episode isn’t the best, but I promise the conversation is worth sticking around for.

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Samuel Jacobs was born in Washington but moved to Utah when he was young. He is a state delegate, which I’m sure we’ll talk about more. Samuel also recently got married and currently attending BYU studying cybersecurity.

In this episode, I sit down with Samuel to talk about what it means to be politically active in today’s world. As a state delegate, Samuel has had a front-row seat to the importance of local elections and the powerful role everyday people can play in shaping their communities. We explore his experiences volunteering on campaigns, the different ways to support good causes, and how local politics often impacts our lives more directly than national debates.

Samuel also shares his perspective on finding bipartisan solutions and the value of leaders who are willing to engage in real across-the-aisle conversations. We talk about the challenge of staying optimistic in the face of political division, and why hope—and active participation—are both essential to building a better future.

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In this special mini-episode of Common Threads, we take a step back from individual stories to look at the bigger picture—how the generation you grew up in can shape the way you see the world. From Baby Boomers to Gen Z, each generation has been formed by unique historical events, cultural moments, and social shifts that influence how they view politics, relationships, work, and even everyday situations.

We’ll explore how these shared experiences create generational “lenses” that impact not only what we believe, but also how we communicate across age groups. While it’s easy to get stuck in our own perspective, understanding the world through another generation’s eyes can build empathy, connection, and respect for one another.

This episode also kicks off a mini-series where we’ll unpack different themes and perspectives to help us better understand the people around us. If you enjoy this format, let me know—I’d love to hear your feedback and see if we should continue with more episodes like this!

Sources & Further Reading

• Smith, T. W., et al. (2019). Generations and Politics: A Research Overview. American Journal of Political Science.
• Pew Research Center. (2015). The Whys and Hows of Generations Research.
• Cai, Delia. Boomers? Zoomers? Gen X'ers? Millennials? The Psychologist Who Wrote the Book on Generations Thinks We Could All Use Some Perspective. Vanity Fair, April 24, 2023.
• Stone, Deborah. (2025). Leading Multigenerational Teams. University of Utah.

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