Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.

We talk about:

• why being unbed is not the same as being an incel, and why that distinction matters
• how shame, social skill gaps, and emotional shutdown make sex feel inaccessible
• why many men chase sex when what they are really craving is connection
• how neurodivergence and the absence of male friendship intensify isolation
• where the manosphere reflects real pain, and where it pushes men further from intimacy

Listen in for a direct, to-the-point conversation about why sex feels so out of reach for many men, and what actually helps build connection, confidence, and intimacy.

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TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST

There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.

In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for expansion instead of something to hide.

We talk about:

• untangling early childhood sexual trauma and the healing journey that followed

• reclaiming pleasure and learning to trust her body again

• unlinking fantasy from orgasm and expanding her capacity for sensation

• using sex magic, arousal, shadow integration, and primal energy as tools for transformation

• embodying the dark feminine and dark masculine, choosing sovereignty, and understanding why taboo desires often hold our deepest medicine

Listen in and let this conversation invite you back into your body, your power, and your most authentic desires.

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There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.

In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk about consent, negotiation, emotional safety, and how those pieces make it possible to relax, let go, and experience pleasure more deeply than ever.

If you are curious about kink, ready to expand your pleasure, or wanting sex that feels richer and more connected, this episode offers practical tools you can take straight into your own intimacy. Listen in!

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