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What up my wreckage clearers. On this episode we get down and dirty and raw. Unfiltered truth and reality as always. We are going to talk about the victim mentality and how it holds us back from growth and personal development. How it can keep us stuck. Repeating the same cycles and same default behavior. Why? Because for the most part it is something we created ourselves so that we would not have to take responsibility for our own actions. We can tend to believe that we really are the victim. Truth is, we are not victims. Our problems maybe but of our own making. Or life just happens and trauma and suffering may come, but will we choose to grow from it or stay a victim of it. Your choice!! I choose to be the victor!!

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Hey my Wreckage Clearers! in this episode we discuss how comfort keeps up stuck. It keeps us bound to the same level of life. The same routine. The same behaviors. The familiar. The known. We all have vices and or something we escape toward to bring us comfort. It could be food, sex, drugs, alcohol, or it could be our default behaviors. Such as yelling, screaming, shutting down when we are triggered. These certain behaviors give us a sense of comfort. But what if we became too comfortable? Even in darkness our eyes can adjust. Are we becoming to comfortable in the darkness? Well I explain to you how in the uncomfortable is how I was finally able to see light and look within and began to clear the wreckage. In that darkness and in that discomfort somehow It became familiar and I became comfortable with the darkness. It wasn't until it all became really uncomfortable, that there was a chance for change and a glimmer of hope. Maybe it is time for us to realize that the discomfort is there to help us evolve and grow and produce wings and turn into a butterfly.

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Hey My Wreckage Clearers! In this episode we discuss how darkness has now fully enclosed around me. I am now in my cocoon and I am afraid of the dark. I don't know why this is happening. I don't understand and because I don't understand, I must escape. However, you cannot escape the darkness. Every where I turned it was more darkness, there was no light. You cannot escape this type of darkness, by trying to escape it all I did was prolong the stages of darkness. I also share with you how because of the pain and the hurt I was feeling it was too much to take. Have you ever felt that way? Where you just cannot take the pain or the feelings of heart break or hurt or even disappointment or abandonment or even death. You are so used to the familiar that this unknown is way too scary for you to experience. This is what I was going through at that time in my life. I encourage you to clear the wreckage and do not prolong the stages of darkness.