You create the rules in mom life, do you get that?

I’ve been thinking about this for a while now and I’ve come to realize that most of the time, we tuck ourselves in boxes of ways that we think we ‘should’ be.

And it’s time to shift.

Our lives are only created by chance when we allow what comes to come and don’t stand in our power to choose.

Your current reality was created by you through the choices you made and the actions you took.

And the most amazing thing is, because you created the reality you currently live in, you can also create the next reality you desire.

It’s only your beliefs that created the reality you are in and those can always be changed.

It’s YOUR TIME to create your life in a way that feels good for you.

It’s your time to get out of the box of ‘shoulds’ and start being intentional about the things you do.

It’s time for you to choose to take different action, maybe even one that feels a little uncomfy because that’s where the most growth happens → on the other side of discomfort.

And if your brain is asking you how I want you to think about this question…

If I was a woman + mom living the life I desired with EVERYTHING I’ve ever wanted, how would I show up today?

How would I think about life?

If there were no rules, what would I choose to do?

It’s time to bring that vision you have for your life into your life.

This is what I love helping women do and you are NO exception to any rule because you get to CHOOSE your own!

This week’s Pep Talk is so dang good so go listen + please drop a review and let me know what you think!

The empowered mom knows who she wants to be and she decides how she shows up.

She lives her life with intention.

She shows up in motherhood with intention.

She knows that there’s work to do and things to work through when it comes to raising her kids.

She knows that our kids are here to teach us the parts that need to be healed the most within.

She has big dreams AND desires to show up big for her kids too.

She chooses how she shows up.

She chooses how life works for her.

She lets go of judgment that it all has to look a certain way.

The vibe is: YOUR life YOUR way. Every area of it from motherhood, partnership, making money, the support... it's all done as you choose.

In this episode I talk about showing up as a mom. Where I’ve fallen short + made changes so that you can too.

The thing is… Motherhood gets to look no different than the way we choose it to be and this is what I’m here to help you create.

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Ooof… this is a topic that has been a struggle of mine for my entire life. And while I’m getting so much better at it these days, it still pops up in new areas and I have to work through it again.

If you lived a childhood where you didn’t really feel like you belonged or if you asked for support, it wasn’t always willingly given with love and joy from your parents or those around you… chances are that you’ve developed some hyper-independence.

You have learned to rely on me, myself, and I and have an ‘I can do it myself’ attitude amiright?

I’m right here with you and it made things so much harder than they needed to be for me and I’m guessing it’s the same for you too.

When we learn this behavior growing up, it likes to come along into adulthood. And the thing is, we don’t just naturally shift from a state of not knowing if our needs or desires will be met by others to I’m going to ask for support in everything in life!

Typically we have to get ourselves to a place of believing that it’s even ok that I can’t stay on top of it all with ease and grace…. Then I have to muster up the courage for a bit to then ask for help.

At least this is mostly how it was for me up until the last 6 months or so.

And I truly don’t want it to take you this long to get the support that you want.

We weren’t meant to live life in survival mode.

Life gets to be created with intention.

It’s time for you to step into the life you desire.

No one does it all on their own and if you’ve been trying, it’s time to drop the struggle and step into a new vibe.

Being the most empowered you…

A woman worthy of support because you are.
A woman who knows how to create a life that feels good.
A woman who is unapologetically her, sets powerful boundaries, and isn’t afraid to speak up when things don’t feel good.

You get to become her and I’m teaching you how in this week’s pep talk.

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