What if the most powerful force shaping your life isn’t your past, your beliefs, your circumstances, or your conditioning but the way you conceptualise yourself?

In this episode of Becoming Full of Yourself we explore what happens when you decide to define yourself on your own terms. Not by your childhood conditioning. Not by the expectations of others. Not by the roles you’ve played or the identities you’ve inherited. But by the truth that rises from your own lived experience.

This is a conversation about self concept, sovereignty, and the inner shift from who the world told you to be to who you actually are.

Joining me is Michelle Dale, a veteran in the online space, and someone who I have known for most of the 20 years since we both started our online businesses.

Founder of Virtual Miss Friday, Creator of 1nSourcing™ & Architect of Virtual CoWorking Space

Michelle specialises in showing virtual assistants and other online service professionals how to create functional and efficient online businesses, attract and secure high end clients and lead with sustainable profit-driven packages that can be scaled to 6+ figures through strategic experience-based training, results-driven coaching and diverse hands-on services.

Together, we explore:

* What shapes your self concept and how it can become either a prison or a portal

* Why women who appear strong, capable and high-functioning often feel insecure on the inside

* The emotional and energetic cost of being the “good girl” or the “reliable one”

* How redefining yourself changes what you tolerate, create, and allow

* Why belonging begins with the relationship you have with yourself

* The difference between performing confidence and embodying it

* The subtle shifts that help you feel more like you, and less like a role you’re playing

This episode is a masterclass in self identity for culture makers: the creators, leaders, facilitators, strategists, and sensitives who feel ready to stop self-abandoning and start living from a place of grounded, embodied truth.

If you’ve been feeling slightly off course, unsure who you are becoming, or longing to feel more like your real self, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.

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Michelle Dale is a Virtual Assistant thought leader, entrepreneur, and pioneer in location-independent living. She is the founder of Virtual Miss Friday, an online business consultancy and academy with built-in virtual assistant services, and the creator of 1nSourcing™, a service that supports six and seven-figure business owners with high-level operational and strategic support.

At 23, Michelle left the UK to pursue a life of true freedom. Since then, she has built a thriving online service and digital product business while travelling full-time, living abroad, and raising three children with her husband. She now mentors men and women around the world to cultivate their own professional independence, personal fulfilment, and digital freedom.

Connect with Michelle:https://www.facebook.com/VMFLtd/https://www.facebook.com/groups/241025172576709/https://www.instagram.com/vmfltdhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/virtualmissfriday/https://www.youtube.com/user/VirtualAssistantLive

A deep dive into vocation as devotion. An invitation to understand the energetic design beneath your work, creativity, and leadership so you can craft a life that is truly yours.

Becoming Full of Yourself

Episode 9. Vocation. Devotion. The Design of a Life that is Truly Yours

What does it mean to live a life that is not only aligned but devoted. In this solo episode I explore vocation as something deeper than work or purpose. It is the frequency that hums beneath everything you do. It is the thread that runs through your Human Design, your Gene Keys, your astrological blueprint, your somatic patterning, your shadows, and your lived experience.

I take you behind the scenes of my own vocation and how it has shaped the choices I make, the offerings I create, and the way I show up as a guide, facilitator, artist, and culture maker. You will hear how devotion has become the anchor for my business, my creativity, and my leadership, and why understanding your unconscious design can shift you out of resistance, half heartedness, and projection and into maturity, potency, and self trust.

We explore:• What vocation really is beyond career• Why devotion is an energetically resourcing stance• How your unconscious Mars and other generational planets influence your drive• Shadow states and how they distort your direction• The Kismet Codes as a navigational system for sovereignty and self mastery• The difference between fate and destiny as lived practice• Why embodying your design is essential if you want sustainable success• How to recognise when you are creating from conditioning rather than truth• What it takes to build offerings that are both aligned and alive• My own process of reworking offers, including Kismetflix, the Sovereign Community, and the evolution of my teachings

This episode is for midlife creatives, leaders, and culture makers who sense there is something deeper calling them forward. It will support you to reconnect with your sacred spark, honour your design, and move towards the life that feels like yours. A life that is crafted rather than inherited. A life lived in devotion.

If you are ready to understand your own vocational frequency more intimately, explore your Human Design in practice, or work with the Kismet Codes, you will find links to current offerings and resources below.

The Ultimate Soul Contract Cheat Codes Bundle

ebonieallard.com/get-chart

The Kismet Code Cards

What is your Vocation? How do you see it playing out in your life?

Work with me:

* The Value Filter

* Kismetflix

* Embody Your Design

In this episode, I’m joined by Adrienne Roach — a 1/3 Ego Manifestor and the visionary behind ManiSisters Global. Adrienne and I discuss the challenges of being unapologetic, how misunderstood the ego centre can be, the joys of being an ego-centered woman, and the privilege that comes with it.

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We explore what it really means to be ‘full of ego’ as someone with a defined Ego centre / an ego Manifestor. The misunderstandings around the Ego Centre, self-authority, power, and fulfilment.

Adrienne shares her personal experience of navigating life as an Ego Manifestor, the role of self-trust in Manifestor strategy, and how she’s building transformative spaces specifically designed for Manifestor women to reconnect to their innate leadership.

Together, we bust myths around ego, discuss the importance of creating permission within yourself, and explore the nuances of some of our 'tricker' parts.

If you’re a Manifestor, work with one, or are simply curious about the healthy expression of ego, this conversation is for you. If you have gate 45 defined, or 21, are a 5 Line, or a 1/3 - you'll get a lot from this episode.

We talk about:

→ The real meaning of being ‘full of ego’

→ Adrienne’s journey as a 1/3 Ego Manifestor

→ Self-trust and the power of the Will Centre

→ How Manifestors can build regenerative rather than extractive power structures

→ Why many Manifestors feel misunderstood or ‘too much’

→ The energetic signature of the Manifestor & how to work with it

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Connect with Adrienne Roach:

Find out more about ManiSisters Global: Master Peace - Free Course for Manifestors: https://manisisters.com

Follow Adrienne on Instagram: IG: @manisisters_tv

Connect with me, Ebonie Allard:

Website: https://ebonieallard.com/get-chart

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