If you are a wounded child, you have irrational core beliefs about yourself. This causes low self esteem, lack of confidence, and repeating bad decisions. The good news is that it can be fixed but it requires a commitment.

The ultimate goal is to become the best version of yourself. You need to start with the basics and heal the wounds and change your mindset so you are able to move forward with a positive foundation and a rational core belief in yourself.

If you justify being treated poorly, you are doing a great disservice to yourself. Broken people tend to not only accept being treated poorly but often justify it. Stop self victimizing yourself.

If you are constantly aplogizing to everyone for everything, this is a hallmark of a broken person. Always be true to your authentic self and only apologize when you are responsible for the action that was wrong or hurtful.

Now it's time to start writing out and answering questions about what is your irrational core belief about yourself. This is a vital part of changing your fixed mindset.

I loved as a wounded child and broken person for decades until I made the decision to fix it. I had no idea how because back then there was not help out there and that's part of the reason I am doing this now. I love to see people succeed and if I can help you get there, I want to.

If you are struggling with self confidence and self acceptance, it may be that your fixed mindset is feeding you irrational beliefs about yourself and it can be changed. This is part 2 of the process to changing your fixed mindset so you can be the best version of yourself.

If your fixed mindset is based on negativity, you will struggle with being the best version of yourself. Make the decision to change your mindset and find the authentic you.