I ask first-time clients to send a picture of their child, but I learned not to open it until right before the session because the child’s energy would wake me early in the morning.

I’ve been creating a client book with a Word doc for each client, including their name, photo, and notes from our Spirit to Spirit sessions,

and it’s been joyful to revisit and summarize our conversations.

Reopening each photo fills me with love and connection, and it reminds me of how meaningful it is when others love your kids.

Like when my son Devon’s Cub Scout leader warmly accepted his sensory quirks.

Through these sessions with nonspeakers, I feel privileged to connect deeply, share insights with parents, and help increase their love and understanding—one mom said she used to see her son in black and white, but now she sees all his colors.

Today I talk about trauma and how it can affect both parents and children,

and why birth trauma led me into energy work after my oldest son's anger noticeably decreased following a demonstration that cleared energy around our traumatic pregnancy and emergency C-section/NICU experience.

I explain my personal distinction between “big T” and “little T” trauma, emphasizing that some trauma isn’t recognized as such until later.

I describe how trauma often shows up as an incomplete freeze (or fight/flight) cycle and use a “hula hoop” image to illustrate how triggers can reactivate stuck trauma energy,

then share how I energetically complete the cycle, clear triggers, and gently shift beliefs.

Using examples (a child bitten by a puppy and my youngest Bryson’s beach/boat trauma), I explain that this work clears energy without retelling or reliving the event.

See a sample session here https://awesomeautismtools.com/why-try-energy-work/

Today I share a small but powerful lesson:

I kept clicking the wrong button while working on my newsletter, and I got frustrated

—until I realized my water bottle was blocking the correct button on my screen.

Once I moved it, everything was easy.

I use this as a reminder that answers can be right in front of me, but I might not see them because something is in the way

—like feeling ungrounded, taking on other people’s emotions, holding unprocessed feelings, feeling stuck in grief, or having blocked or unbalanced energy.

I also talk about how fear and beliefs can block clarity,

and I guide you through a simple breathing exercise to help notice what’s in the way, get grounded and shielded, and “move” what you can so your next step feels clearer.

Mentioned in this episode:

If you are curious about energy work learn more here. https://awesomeautismtools.com/why-try-energy-work/ If you have more questions, I would love to chat with you. Sign up for a free clarity call. https://awesomeautismtools.com/appointments/

Join me as I delve into the transformative practices of grounding and shielding, essential tools for families navigating autism.

Learn how these techniques can help you and your children stay calm, regulated, and emotionally balanced.

From personal experiences to client stories, I'll show you how grounding and shielding can make a significant impact on your daily life.

Mentioned in this episode:

Ground and Shield Free Class

I have a free class, so you can easily learn to ground and shield. You can access it here! awesomeautismtools.com/gsclass

In this episode, I welcome Dannah, a passionate spelling to communicate practitioner who shares her journey from working with autistic individuals in her youth to becoming an official practitioner today.

Donna discusses the intriguing world of non-speakers and introduces the groundbreaking method of spelling to communicate, which helps non-speakers express themselves by pointing to letters.

She also shares rewarding and challenging moments from her work and offers valuable insights and resources for anyone interested in this innovative communication method.

00:47 Dannah Discovering the Speller Community

01:56 Becoming a Practitioner

03:06 Challenges and Rewards in the Speller Community

07:08 Working with an Energy Worker

13:57 Insights on Motor Planning and Communication

18:44 Final Thoughts and Resources

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I share a pivotal moment with my son Devon, when he was around 10 years old, that changed my approach to parenting and healing.

From stressful experiences of family walks marred by tantrums to discovering the profound impact of birth trauma on both our nervous systems,

I share how energy work transformed our lives.

Join me as I discuss the importance of addressing trauma in both parent and child for lasting peace and healing.

00:00 A Family Walk Gone Wrong

00:52 The Struggle with Devon's Dysregulation

02:58 Seeking Solutions and Finding Trauma

04:25 A Breakthrough in Understanding

06:59 The Path to Healing

10:06 An Invitation to Support and Healing

Mentioned in this episode:

If you are curious about energy work learn more here. https://awesomeautismtools.com/why-try-energy-work/ If you have more questions, I would love to chat with you. Sign up for a free clarity call. https://awesomeautismtools.com/appointments/

In this heartfelt episode, discover the profound impact of simple acts of love and kindness seen through the touching experience of a nonspeaker, Danny. Learn how small gestures, like a smile or a wave, can make someone feel seen and valued. Experience a guided visualization to spread this light of love and transform both the giver and the receiver.

00:00 The Power of Everyday Love

00:27 Danny's Story: A Glimpse into School Life

02:13 Bryson's Impact: Small Acts of Kindness

03:56 The Ripple Effect of Love

04:18 Guided Visualization: Spreading Love

06:36 Final Thoughts: Be the Light

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Understanding the difference between 'want' and 'need' can transform our interactions and reduce stress. In this episode, learn how to make this crucial shift in mindset, whether in parenting or daily activities, for a smoother, more peaceful life experience. The host shares personal stories and tips to help listeners apply this powerful concept in their own lives.

02:36 Real-Life Examples of Want vs. Need

06:08 Higher Stakes: Family and Faith

07:36 Helping Non-Speakers and Dietary Challenges

10:26 Practical Exercises and Safety Considerations

15:02 Conclusion and Call to Action

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