Let's talk about... the Alex-on-Alix drama continues. We’ve got Alix Earle responding, Alex Cooper backtracking and deleting her TikTok, and Brianna Chickenfry entering the chat. From mean girl claims to fans switching up to Matt Kaplan almost dated who???

Yeah… you’re gonna want to sit down for this. Take a second... take it in.....

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You are not too much. You are not hard to love. You are not asking for too much.

This episode is for the girls who are done chasing, done overthinking, and done ending up with the same man in a different body. Violet gets into feminine energy, what it actually means, why so many women slip into their masculine energy without even realizing it, and how that starts showing up in dating. She talks self-worth, standards, intuition, softness, confidence, and knowing when to walk away. If you’re ready to stop forcing what is not flowing and start moving like the prize, this one is for you.

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Let's talk about... Alex Cooper and Alix Earle drama and why we are team Alix based on receipts. Let's also talk about Coachella how much it's changed over the years.

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Let’s talk about… the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done for a man. I'll start!

And why doing something nice for someone who didn’t ask for it, never ends the way you want.

(dropping this today since I've decided moving forward these episodes will drop on Tuesday's and not on Saturday's)

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Read it and weep, besties, because Patti is not here to sugarcoat a single thing. Stop wasting your time on a boy who only wants you around to boost his ego, fill his schedule, and keep you on standby while he figures himself out. Boys will breadcrumb you, mind game you, and keep you confused. Men make it clear. And we are done accepting less.

Today, Patti Stanger returns to the show to talk about how to stop being a placeholder, raise your standards, and actually recognize the difference between a man and a boy. Patti and Violet get into why women give too much too soon, how bad relationship patterns start in childhood, why men know much earlier than they admit, and how to tell when you’re being strung along. They also break down love bombing, gaslighting, red flags, ultimatums, dating with self-respect, and why waiting around is the fastest way to waste your own life.

If you’ve ever questioned someone’s intentions, stayed too long, or confused chemistry with commitment, this one is your wake-up call.

What to Listen For:

07:40 Why do we pick who we pick?

09:20 If you give a man too much of anything

13:43 Dating a boy versus a man

17:53 You want to know what their intentions are

22:37 If you allow yourself to be used

25:25 Is giving an ultimatum a good idea?

29:00 You get the ring when you have self respect

32:08 Why do we give our hearts too quickly?

35:59 Be realistic with your standards

43:06 Love bombers are mostly narcissists

47:48. Red flags vs green flags

52:19 The effects bad relationships have on kids

57:03 How do you handle the highs and lows?

59:30 Why are you wasting time?

01:07 Being able to do other things

01:08 Do I have to calm down my intensity to not scare off men?

01:11:30 What’s the best advice you’ve received?

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• Millionaire's Club
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Have you ever let one reckless thought turn into a full night of regret?

Violet kicks off a new Series of Unfortunate Events with two unbelievably embarrassing stories involving a one-night stand, a love confession to a best friend gone wrong, and the kind of confidence that only shows up right before everything goes to hell. You know those nights that should’ve ended one decision earlier? Yeah. It’s that. Because once a line gets crossed, there’s no cute way to walk it back.

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Let’s talk about… the secret lives of Mormon wives, Summer House scandal Amanda and Cierra, and me shamelessly campaigning to get on Traitors.

Let's also talk about... how I stepped out for one night and found myself in a buffet of hot men, from not feeling chosen to choosing myself again, running into an LA yearner, hiring a matchmaker… and why I’m officially BACK in my dating era.

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