Let’s AgeGayfully® together, with intention, humor, and each other.

Aging Gayfully hits the jukebox! Josh and Chris time-travel through the soundtrack of their lives—from 60s Motown and The Big Chill memories, to 70s Elton John and eight-tracks, to MTV-fueled 80s anthems like “Take On Me,” and finally a 90s detour to the Three Tenors that sparked a love of classical music. Along the way: why everyone needs “their pub,” the $20 bartender tip rule, TV shows that made us music fans, and how orchestral soundtracks and symphonies still soothe the brain as we age. It’s nostalgia, community, and the science-backed wellness of music—served with bartender-level hospitality.

Keywords: LGBTQ+ aging, music and memory, Motown, Elton John, MTV, 80s pop, classical music, wellbeing, community, travel & leisure.

A gay senior, Christopher MacLellan, and an ally, Josh Wilson, podcasting about life, love, liberty and travel.

Don’t Say Gay?… Say AgingGayfully®!

AgingGayfully® is about living life with dignity in an age-friendly society regardless of orientation or economic status because longevity is a justice issue.

AgingGayfully® is about finding your voice as we age. We are all part of the aging process and have real connections in diversity.

AgingGayfully® is a modern type of activism that supports the concept of belonging.

AgingGayfully® is about Adventure, Leisure, Travel, being a citizen of the world, traveling to destinations, and being part of the global community as we age and prosper in body, mind, and spirit.

• (00:00:00) - Aging Gayfully
• (00:04:38) - The Music of the 80s
• (00:05:30) - What is the first song you remember singing in the 60s?
• (00:09:35) - Do You Remember Your First Connection With Music?
• (00:13:21) - What Brings Back Music in the 70s?
• (00:17:15) - Bowl Lessons: The 80s
• (00:21:51) - Australian Rock and Bowl
• (00:25:13) - The Three Tenors
• (00:29:39) - Aging Gay Voices

In this episode of AgingGayfully®, hosts Chris MacLellan and Josh Wilson discuss the desire for change and new beginnings, particularly in light of recent events affecting the LGBTQ community. They reflect on the importance of community and belonging, navigating the current political climate, and the challenges of personal safety. The conversation also touches on the implications of relocation and the significance of personal connections in times of uncertainty.

Takeaways

• Greg Louganis is moving to Panama for a fresh start.
• The desire to relocate is influenced by the current political climate.
• Community plays a crucial role in supporting individuals during tough times.
• Many LGBTQ individuals are considering moving to more accepting environments. The importance of personal connections and family when considering relocation.
• Navigating the noise of social media and AI-generated content is challenging.
• Historical patterns can inform current societal issues.
• The fear of leaving behind those who cannot move is significant. E
• ngaging with the community is essential for support and understanding. T
• The hosts encourage listeners to share their thoughts on relocation.

Let’s AgeGayfully® together, with intention, humor, and each other.

A gay senior, Christopher MacLellan, and an ally, Josh Wilson, podcasting about life, love, liberty and travel.

Don’t Say Gay?… Say AgingGayfully®!

AgingGayfully® is about living life with dignity in an age-friendly society regardless of orientation or economic status because longevity is a justice issue.

AgingGayfully® is about finding your voice as we age. We are all part of the aging process and have real connections in diversity.

AgingGayfully® is a modern type of activism that supports the concept of belonging.

AgingGayfully® is about Adventure, Leisure, Travel, being a citizen of the world, traveling to destinations, and being part of the global community as we age and prosper in body, mind, and spirit.

In this episode of AgingGayfully®, hosts Chris and Josh discuss health updates, personal growth, and the importance of stepping into one's comfort zone. Chris shares his recent experiences with artistic expression and how it has helped him rediscover himself. The conversation reflects on life lessons, regrets, and the significance of using one's talents and skills.

Takeaways

• Life does not stop when we get sick.
• Stepping into your comfort zone can lead to personal growth.
• Artistic expression can help rediscover oneself.
• It's important to use your talents and skills.
• Reflecting on life can help identify what truly makes you happy.
• There are no regrets, only lessons learned.
• Finding the right environment can foster growth.
• Everyone has a story worth sharing.
• Engaging with the community can lead to meaningful connections.
• Happiness often comes from using your innate talents.

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Let’s AgeGayfully® together, with intention, humor, and each other.

A gay senior, Christopher MacLellan, and an ally, Josh Wilson, podcasting about life, love, liberty and travel.

Don’t Say Gay?… Say AgingGayfully®!

AgingGayfully® is about living life with dignity in an age-friendly society regardless of orientation or economic status because longevity is a justice issue.

AgingGayfully® is about finding your voice as we age. We are all part of the aging process and have real connections in diversity.

AgingGayfully® is a modern type of activism that supports the concept of belonging.

AgingGayfully® is about Adventure, Leisure, Travel, being a citizen of the world, traveling to destinations, and being part of the global community as we age and prosper in body, mind, and spirit.

• (00:00:00) - Aging Gayfully
• (00:02:59) - A Gay Man's Experiences As He Ages
• (00:07:16) - Josh Had His Face Photographed
• (00:11:14) - Josh Holloway on Stepping Out Of His Comfort Zone
• (00:16:12) - Feeling Happy in Your Life
• (00:19:16) - No Regrets in Life
• (00:27:28) - Aging Gay: Story Sharing

In this episopde, Chris and Josh share insights into their journeys from religious vocations to a more personal, liberated spirituality. They discuss the difference between religion and spirituality, the importance of community, and what it means to feel truly welcome, especially as LGBTQ+ individuals navigating faith spaces. Equal parts laughter, life lessons, and candid reflection, this episode invites you to think about where you find connection, meaning, and joy as you age.

Share your story or drop a line: yesiam@aginggayfully.com
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Let’s AgeGayfully® together, with intention, humor, and each other.

A gay senior, Christopher MacLellan, and an ally, Josh Wilson, podcasting about life, love, liberty and travel.

Don’t Say Gay?… Say AgingGayfully®!

AgingGayfully® is about living life with dignity in an age-friendly society regardless of orientation or economic status because longevity is a justice issue.

AgingGayfully® is about finding your voice as we age. We are all part of the aging process and have real connections in diversity.

AgingGayfully® is a modern type of activism that supports the concept of belonging.

AgingGayfully® is about Adventure, Leisure, Travel, being a citizen of the world, traveling to destinations, and being part of the global community as we age and prosper in body, mind, and spirit.

• (00:00:00) - Aging Gayfully
• (00:06:19) - Mariscos on His Spiritual Vocation
• (00:08:44) - What Community Do You Feel Like You Fit In?
• (00:15:40) - Topics of Caregiving and Ministry
• (00:22:48) - Fear of talking about religion at 25
• (00:28:50) - Favorite All-Time Band

What does it mean to step into your comfort zone? Chris and Josh discuss how we match out talents and interests with what we do in the world. When we are able to do this, we find purpose and meaning and fullfillment.

Share your story or drop a line: yesiam@aginggayfully.com
Like, subscribe, and ring our bell (figuratively or otherwise).

Let’s AgeGayfully® together, with intention, humor, and each other.

A gay senior, Christopher MacLellan, and an ally, Josh Wilson, podcasting about life, love, liberty and travel.

Don’t Say Gay?… Say AgingGayfully®!

AgingGayfully® is about living life with dignity in an age-friendly society regardless of orientation or economic status because longevity is a justice issue.

AgingGayfully® is about finding your voice as we age. We are all part of the aging process and have real connections in diversity.

AgingGayfully® is a modern type of activism that supports the concept of belonging.

AgingGayfully® is about Adventure, Leisure, Travel, being a citizen of the world, traveling to destinations, and being part of the global community as we age and prosper in body, mind, and spirit.

In this heartfelt and humorous episode of AgingGayfully®, Chris and Josh dive into one of the most pressing issues facing older adults today: loneliness. From near cardiac scares to surprise mixologist recommendations, they explore how aging bodies and changing social landscapes can quietly isolate us...and what we can do about it.

With personal stories, laughter, and a few unexpected confessions (yes, colorblindness and condo paint are involved), they unpack research showing how social isolation increases risks of dementia, heart disease, and even early death—comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. But don't worry, it's not all doom and gloom.

If you're feeling a little adrift, or just wondering how to reconnect with purpose, this episode will offer comfort, insights, and probably a hug (eventually). Tune in to explore vulnerability, affection, introversion, and the healing power of being understood.

Featuring:

CDC-backed stats on isolation and aging

Real talk on medical scares and emotional health

The difference between solitude and loneliness

Why asking for help is an act of strength

And how touch, talk, and connection save lives

Share your story or drop a line: yesiam@aginggayfully.com
Like, subscribe, and ring our bell (figuratively or otherwise).

Let’s AgeGayfully® together, with intention, humor, and each other.

A gay senior, Christopher MacLellan, and an ally, Josh Wilson, podcasting about life, love, liberty and travel.

Don’t Say Gay?… Say AgingGayfully®!

AgingGayfully® is about living life with dignity in an age-friendly society regardless of orientation or economic status because longevity is a justice issue.

AgingGayfully® is about finding your voice as we age. We are all part of the aging process and have real connections in diversity.

AgingGayfully® is a modern type of activism that supports the concept of belonging.

AgingGayfully® is about Adventure, Leisure, Travel, being a citizen of the world, traveling to destinations, and being part of the global community as we age and prosper in body, mind, and spirit.

• (00:00:00) - A Gay Life: A Taste of Travel
• (00:00:59) - Heart Checkup for Weight Losser
• (00:03:00) - Loneliness and the Heart
• (00:04:32) - Seniors and Loneliness
• (00:12:48) - The Age of Disturbance
• (00:15:27) - In the Elevator With Introverts
• (00:21:01) - Lonely People Need Human Connection
• (00:27:04) - Seniors Talk Loneliness

In this episode of AgingGayfully®, Josh and Chris explore how technology can enhance the lives of seniors, focusing on smart speakers and assistive technologies that promote safety and independence.

The conversation also highlights the significance of authenticity in tech solutions and the role of intergenerational learning in adapting to new technologies.

Takeaways

• Technology can significantly enhance the lives of seniors.
• Smart speakers provide safety and independence for older adults.
• Assistive technology can help those with vision challenges.
• AI tools can monitor health and predict falls.
• Authenticity in tech solutions is vital for user trust.
• Intergenerational learning enhances technology adoption.
• Pill reminders can help seniors maintain independence.
• Sharing experiences fosters community and support.

A gay senior, Christopher MacLellan, and an ally, Josh Wilson, are podcasting about life, love, liberty, and travel.

AGING GAYFULLY® is about living life with dignity in an age-friendly society, regardless of orientation or economic status, because longevity is a justice issue.

AGING GAYFULLY® is about finding your voice as we age. We are all part of the aging process and have real connections in diversity.

AGINGGAYFULLY® is a modern type of activism that supports the concept of belonging.

• (00:00:00) - Aging Gayfully
• (00:05:21) - Seniors and Technology
• (00:08:42) - Seniors and Tech: Safety and Independence
• (00:13:39) - Alexa the Amazon Virtual Assistant for Seniors
• (00:17:28) - Seniors and technology
• (00:22:15) - Seniors and the Tech Industry
• (00:26:33) - Fooled by Smartwatches: Preventing Falling
• (00:27:33) - Christopher McClellan on Caregiving and Senior Care
• (00:31:13) - A message for the year

In this conversation, Josh and Chris discuss the importance of authenticity in storytelling, particularly Chris’ relationship with deceased partner Richard and their journey through terminal illness.

Throughout the episode, Chris reflects on the emotional complexities of revisiting memories while working on a film adaptation of their story.

The discussion also touches on the broader implications of personal narratives in fostering empathy and societal change, emphasizing love and commitment as universal themes.

Quote Chris referenced in the new title of the film

“She had studied the universe all her life, but had overlooked its clearest message: For small creatures such as we, the vastness is bearable only through love.” Carl Sagan, Contact

Takeaways

Authenticity is crucial in storytelling.

Cancer serves as the antagonist in their narrative.

Revisiting memories can be emotionally challenging.

Patience is essential in the creative process.

Personal stories can resonate with a wider audience.

Story sharing can provide comfort and connection.

Love and commitment transcend societal boundaries.

The project is a significant part of Chris’s life.

The importance of kindness in society is emphasized.

Awareness of societal issues can foster change.

Chapters

00:00 The Essence of Authenticity in Storytelling

03:03 Navigating Mixed Emotions in Remembrance

06:10 The Symbolism of Personal Stories

12:00 The Call for Compassion and Change

To learn more about the My Green Folder Film project visit: https://mygreenfolderfilm.com/

Email Josh and Chris at: yesiam@aginggayfully.com

A gay senior, Christopher MacLellan, and an ally, Josh Wilson, are podcasting about life, love, liberty, and travel.

AGING GAYFULLY® is about living life with dignity in an age-friendly society, regardless of orientation or economic status, because longevity is a justice issue.

AGING GAYFULLY® is about finding your voice as we age. We are all part of the aging process and have real connections in diversity.

AGINGGAYFULLY® is a modern type of activism that supports the concept of belonging.

AGINGGAYFULLY® is about Adventure, Leisure, Travel, being a citizen of the world, traveling to destinations, and being part of the global community as we age and prosper in body, mind, and spirit.