Why do so many Black women get told their pain is “normal” when it’s anything but? In this episode, Tyra sits down with pelvic floor therapist Dr. Janelle Fredrick to break down the symptoms so many of us have been taught to ignore — from chronic cramps to painful intimacy to stress responses we don’t even realize we’re carrying. Together, they dig into how hormones, stress, and the pelvic floor all connect, and why understanding your body is the first step to real relief.

Takeaways:

• Listening to your body is an act of self-respect.
• Your pain has a source — and it deserves attention.
• Knowing what’s happening in your body is a form of empowerment.

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It’s never too late in the year for a reset. As we enter December, this episode explores how resetting your space, routine, and mindset can help you fall in love with your life again; just in time for the holiday season. From mental resets that quiet your mind, to social resets that protect your energy, to creating little rituals that make any space feel like home, even if it’s not yours, this episode is packed with practical ways to make the holidays feel grounding and restorative.

This week’s Affirmation is: “My joy begins with the choices I make today.”

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3 Biggest Takeaways

1. Slowing down doesn’t mean you’re lazy or falling behind.
2. Even the smallest actions can reignite joy.
3. You can start fresh any time.

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Are you truly a good friend? Answer honestly. In this episode, Tyra dives into the complexities of friendship, how to evaluate your role, grow from evolving connections, and intentionally cultivate meaningful bonds. She shares personal stories about childhood friends, new friendships in adulthood, and the lessons she’s learned about showing up and keeping your side of the street clean.

This week’s Affirmation is: “I am open to giving and receiving the kind of friendship that feels like home.”

3 Biggest Takeaways

1. Friendships have levels and seasons—acquaintances, seasonal friends, core/inner circle, mirror friends, and distant friends—and understanding these helps you navigate your energy and expectations.
2. Being a good friend starts with self-reflection: emotional availability, consistency, honesty, reciprocity, and accountability.
3. The small, surface-level debates (splitting the check, RSVPs, birthdays) matter less than being intentional, communicative, and showing up authentically.

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50 side quests to do this year - https://we.tl/t-gmLxjREKx4

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