Most of us are terrible at setting boundaries around our time, body, and energy—until we realize the chaos we're avoiding by not doing it. Heather and Natalie share hilarious, brutally honest stories about life’s little emergencies, travel mishaps, and the unspoken truths of adulting that no one tells you. From DIY house fixes gone wrong, to the chaos of managing horses, kids, and career, they reveal how even the smallest wins—locking the door on time, sneaking out early from a concert, or saying no to a late-night meeting—are real acts of self-care.

In this episode, you'll discover: how to handle unexpected house emergencies without losing your mind, the surprising science behind regaining muscle after a break from riding, and why managing your energy—not just your schedule—is the key to feeling unstoppable. Heather and Natalie laugh through tales of travel chaos, barn battles, and the hilarious truths of juggling motherhood, horses, and personal growth. They break down simple routines to avoid disasters like plumbing leaks or missed flights, and share tips for prioritizing your well-being when life seems to conspire against you.

Perfect for overwhelmed women striving for balance, this episode offers practical, no-nonsense strategies to turn chaos into calm and guilt into grace. Whether you're trying to get back in the saddle, escape the morning rush, or simply find moments of peace in a busy life, Heather and Natalie remind you: you’re not alone, and a little adulting wins go a long way.

Tune in for a dose of humor, honesty, and inspiration—because sometimes, just surviving the week is a victory in itself. Get ready to laugh, learn, and feel empowered to take control of your chaos before it takes control of you.

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this engaging conversation, Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert explore the emotional journey of homeownership, the chaos of book events, and the burdens of adulting. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences in the equestrian world, the importance of self-care, and the struggles of meeting deadlines in their creative pursuits.

The discussion highlights the balance between work and passion, the impact of weather on riding, and the common excuses that arise in their lives. Through humor and relatability, they navigate the complexities of their journeys as equestrians, authors, and individuals.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Homeownership and Personal Growth

02:58 The Chaos of Book Events and Author Life

08:51 Adulting and the Burden of Responsibilities

11:56 Excuses and Justifications in Equestrian Life

14:56 Finding Balance Between Work and Passion

18:05 The Impact of Weather on Riding

29:55 The Reality of Work-Life Balance

33:09 Networking and Collaboration in the Equine Community

36:15 Exciting Events and Opportunities in Lexington

47:11 Pursuing Education and Personal Growth

01:01:04 Travel Adventures and Future Plans

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Keywords

homeownership, personal growth, book events, author life, fame, recognition, adulting, responsibilities, equestrian life, excuses, self-care, time management, writing, creative process, deadlines, work-life balance, equine community, networking, personal growth, education, parenting, time management, creative inspiration, travel, events, Lexington

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this lively episode, Heather Wallace, Natalie Keller Reinert, and Ashley Winch come together for a fun and chaotic discussion about their lives, adulting, and the equestrian world. They kick off the conversation with a humorous introduction, referencing their previous holiday hijinks episode and the idea of bringing chaos to their listeners through a live stream. The trio shares personal anecdotes, including Heather's recent experiences with Rice Krispie treats for dinner and the stress of closing on a house while preparing for the Westminster Dog Show. They also touch on the challenges of adulting, the weather, and the quirks of their horses, leading to a light-hearted exploration of their lives as horse enthusiasts.

As the conversation unfolds, the group welcomes surprise guest Nichole Chiciro of Horse & Rider, and dives into various topics, including the differences in their living situations, the absurdity of horse names, and the unique personalities of their equine companions. They share laughs over their horses' antics and the challenges of managing them in unpredictable weather.

The episode captures the essence of friendship, humor, and the relatable chaos of adulting, all while celebrating their love for horses and the equestrian lifestyle. In this lively episode, the hosts engage in a humorous and candid discussion about their experiences with horses, personal anecdotes, and the quirks of adulting. They share stories about their horses' personalities, particularly focusing on a mare who has strong opinions about her companions and life in general. The conversation flows into light-hearted banter about travel mishaps, the challenges of social media, and the joys of drinking and shopping. As they navigate through various topics, the camaraderie among the hosts shines through, making for an entertaining and relatable episode.

Keywords adulting, horses, equestrian, podcast, humor, chaos, horse names, weather, friendship, lifestyle, horses, adulting, travel stories, equestrian life, humor, personal anecdotes, horse personalities, social media, friendships, podcast

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Holiday Hijinks

01:52 Adulting Adventures and Chaos

05:55 Introducing Nichole and Her Background

10:01 Food, Drinks, and Equestrian Stories

13:59 Horse Mishaps and Personal Anecdotes

15:47 Horse Transformations and Quirky Names

19:32 Superstitions Around Changing Horse Names

21:02 Barn Fitness vs. Gym Fitness

26:01 Weather Woes and Equestrian Life

33:19 The Opinionated Mare

34:44 Travel Tales and Packing Tips

38:23 Nostalgia and Old Photos

41:10 Traveling with Style

48:41 Never Have I Ever: Equestrian Edition

49:23 Playing Never Have I Ever

52:11 Horse-Related Anecdotes

56:09 Caffeine and Cold Brew Conversations

01:00:26 Adulting Wins of the Week

01:01:39 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Us

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast