Healing, growth, and personal transformation — with or without a label.

This episode is the final conversation in The Unlimited Life™ Starter Series —
The 10 most powerful episodes from the Addiction Unlimited archives to help you rebuild your rhythm, structure, and emotional peace.

And I saved this one for last for a reason.

Because what Ian Morgan Cron and I talk about here goes beyond sobriety…
Beyond addiction…
Beyond labels.

This is about transformation.

The truth is, everyone has patterns.
Whether it’s alcohol, perfectionism, food, control, or people-pleasing — we all have behaviors we use to cope.
And the 12 steps offer a framework to heal the emotional root — not just the habit on the surface.

You don’t have to be an alcoholic to feel overwhelmed.
You don’t have to be a drug addict to crave peace.
And you don’t need a label to want something more.

This episode is your reminder that you belong in the work of healing — no matter how it looks on the outside.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why the 12 steps work for any human — not just those in addiction

• What it means to transform your character, not just your habits

• The truth about higher power — and why you might already have one without realizing it

• What to do when you feel like you’re “not sick enough” to belong

• How the 12-step framework helps with emotional sobriety, identity work, and deep personal growth

In this episode, I sit down with Ian Morgan Cron, author of The Fix, to talk about how the 12 steps aren’t just for addicts — they’re for humans.

• 🧠 Join the Dry January Bootcamp — Start your year with structure, clarity, and support
  
• 💬 Book a Call — For coaching, structure, and real transformation
  
• 📖 Ian’s Book: The Fix — How the 12 Steps Offer a Surprising Path of Transformation

• 🎧 Original episode post:
  → addictionunlimited.com/healing-growth-and-freedom-the-12-steps-for-everyone

Exhausted from overthinking everything before you even start? You’re not alone.

Well, my friend, I’m going to be really honest with you today – after 400+ episodes, I had absolutely no idea what to talk about for this one.

And you know what?

That’s actually the most honest thing I could share with you on Christmas Eve.

Here’s the truth: Even after 20 years sober, I’m still an alcoholic.

I still overthink everything. I still doubt myself. My brain still goes to worst-case scenarios sometimes.

The only real difference between me and someone newer to recovery? I’ve had more practice—and I know that everything will be okay.

So if you’re exhausted from trying to have it all figured out before you start, if you’re burnt out on constant self-improvement, or if you’re just… tired—this episode is for you.

No five-step plan.
No worksheets.

Just real talk about what it actually looks like to show up when you don’t have all the answers.

In this episode, you’ll hear all about:

00:13: Why I had no idea what to talk about today (and why that’s the most honest thing I could share)
02:30: What showing up actually looks like when you’re tired, confused, and a little bit lost
05:40: THE REAL WORK – How we burn through all our energy overthinking before we even start
07:34: Taking it one minute at a time with you, me, and my microphone
09:45: What long-term recovery actually looks like – not the absence of doubt, but the absence of panic about it

Listen in, and remember: you’re allowed to just be tired. You’re allowed to not have the answers. And you’re allowed to show up anyway.

Welcome to the club, my friend – you’re in great company.

Links Mentioned in This Episode:

• Dry January Bootcamp – Facebook group opens next week! Get structure, support, and direction one day at a time. addictionunlimited.com/bootcamp (VIP upgrade option available for weekly group coaching)

• Book a Call with Angela – Tired of the BS? Tired of crying? Ready for real relief? Let’s talk about working together: addictionunlimited.com/call

Practical tools to manage stress, set boundaries, and stay sober during the most overwhelming time of year.

In this episode, we’re talking about why the holiday season is such a perfect storm for stress, exhaustion, and relapse risk — and what actually helps you stay grounded, calm, and sober when everything feels like too much.

This isn’t about “just don’t drink” or powering through with willpower.

It’s about planning ahead, setting real boundaries, managing your energy, and protecting your sobriety like it actually matters — because it does.

These tools are timeless and incredibly relevant right now — especially as we head into the final stretch of the year.

HERE ARE THE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE:

1️⃣ Holiday Stress Isn’t the Problem — Lack of Planning Is

The holidays don’t sneak up on us. They come at the same time every year. When you plan ahead — for your schedule, your energy, and your triggers — you dramatically reduce overwhelm and vulnerability.

2️⃣ Boundaries Are a Sobriety Tool, Not a Personality Flaw

Boundaries around time, conversations, commitments, and how long you stay at events aren’t selfish — they’re how you stay regulated, present, and sober when stress is high.

3️⃣ Rest, Connection, and Support Are Non-Negotiable

Sleep deprivation, emotional exhaustion, and isolation make cravings louder. Staying connected to your sober support and refueling your energy keeps you strong when willpower runs out.

We’re days away from Christmas. If your energy is low and your stress is high, that doesn’t mean you’re failing — it means it’s time to slow down, simplify, and protect what matters most.

Take what you learn today and use it. Planning, boundaries, rest, and connection aren’t optional extras. They’re how sobriety lasts.

Links Mentioned in This Episode:

👉 Dry January Bootcamp
If you’re done white-knuckling your way through the holidays and into January, Bootcamp gives you structure, support, and a clear plan to protect your sobriety and start the new year strong.

👉 Book a Call
If you want personalized support and clarity on next steps, book a call to talk through your options.

👉 Join the Free Facebook Group
Connect with others who get it — support, encouragement, and real conversations about sobriety.