Episodios

  • How To Spot a One-Sided Friendship Before It Drains You
    Oct 2 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    Friendships are supposed to feel mutual, but what if you’re always the one putting in the effort? In this episode, I share 5 ways to spot a one-sided friendship before it completely drains you. From being the only one who reaches out, to noticing if your wins go uncelebrated, these signs will help you figure out if your friendship is balanced… or if it’s costing you more than it should.

    The Beyond Small Talk Cohort is coming. Here’s where to learn what it’s about and join the waitlist!

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    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    18 m
  • How to Disagree With Friends Without Losing Them (Part 2)
    Sep 25 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    Disagreements don’t have to end friendships. In this video, Zoe shares practical tools for how to disagree with friends without losing them. You’ll learn how to focus on the person, not the position, listen longer than you talk, and use communication strategies that lower the temperature instead of blowing things up.

    Friendships are worth protecting, even in a divided world. If you’ve ever wondered, “Will this be what ends it?” this episode will show you how to navigate conflict, hold tension with humility, and build the kind of deep, meaningful friendships that can survive differences.

    The Beyond Small Talk Cohort is coming. Here’s where to learn what it’s about and join the waitlist!

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    16 m
  • URGENT Message: THIS Is the Only Way Friendships Can Survive This Level of Division (Starting NOW) Part 1
    Sep 20 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    This is what feels like unprecedented levels of division, and something has to change, or all of our friendships and relationships will get destroyed. But what exactly can WE do? How can we craft friendships that can survive such division? In this emergency episode, I'm breaking down exactly what it will take.

    The Beyond Small Talk Cohort is coming. Here’s where to learn what it’s about and join the waitlist: https://shorturl.at/dKQRd

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    19 m
  • 5 Words You’re Saying That Make People Think You’re ATTACKING Them
    Aug 28 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    Have you ever been in a conversation that went from calm to defensive in seconds, and you had no idea why?

    Chances are, you used one of five danger words that instantly put people on edge. Most of us say them without even realizing it. But once you know what they are, you’ll start catching them everywhere… and you’ll be able to stop yourself before you make things worse.

    In this episode, I break down:

    • The 5 most common words that escalate conflict
    • Why these words trigger defensiveness
    • What to say instead to keep the convo calm and constructive
    • How small shifts in word choice can restore, not ruin, relationships

    If you want deeper friendships and fewer blowups, this one is a must-listen.

    The Beyond Small Talk Cohort is coming. Here’s where to learn what it’s about and join the waitlist!

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    13 m
  • How to Start a Hard Conversation With a Friend (Without Them Getting Upset)
    Aug 21 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    Starting a hard conversation with a friend can feel impossible. In this video, I’ll show you the best way to start THAT talk so it doesn’t blow up and ruin your friendship. You’ll learn practical steps to ease tension, open the door for honesty, and create trust instead of defensiveness. This is Part 1 of a 2 Part series, so be sure to subscribe and turn on your notifications to get Part 2 next week!

    The Beyond Small Talk cohort is coming this fall! Here’s where to learn what it’s about and join the waitlist!

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    17 m
  • Being The "Fixer" Might Be Hurting Your Friendships! Here’s Why
    Aug 14 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    If you're "the fixer" in your relationships, you NEED to watch this episode, because I wish I had learned what I'm about to share with you much earlier in life. Being the “fixer” in your friend group can feel like a badge of honor! People come to you for advice, solutions, and insight. But what if your eagerness to help is actually pushing friends away? In this episode, I share how to shift your approach so you can be a better friend.

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    12 m
  • How to Find Your People & Build Real Community as an Adult, with Mackenzie Te'o (Founder of Bag + Barre Gym)
    Aug 7 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    Why is it so hard to find real community as an adult?! In this episode, I’m joined by my real-life friend and actual community legend Mackenzie T'eo, founder of Bag + Barre gym, and someone I literally call the “Mayor of Sewickley” (where she lives) to talk about what it really takes to build meaningful friendships and lasting community when you move to a new town, and open a brick and mortar business that is dependent on human connection!

    If you're in the Pittsburgh area, check out Mackenzie's gym!

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    31 m
  • How To Support A Struggling Friend (5 Steps That Are Guaranteed To Help)
    Jul 17 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    Watching a friend go through a massive struggle is so painful, especially if there is nothing you can do to fix it. BUT, there is still a way you can help. If your friend is currently going THROUGH IT, and you want to support (or don't want to do the wrong thing and make it worse), this video is for you. This past year, I was that struggling friend, and based on my own experience of what worked and helped me, I'm sharing the top 5 steps you can take to truly support a friend through their struggles.

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    19 m