Do you find yourself waiting for an apology, a compliment, or even a sign that your healing is being witnessed?
In this raw and tender episode, we explore the often invisible — yet incredibly powerful — force of validation and how it can quietly keep us stuck in pain.

From the early childhood roots of needing to be seen and soothed, to the ego’s endless loop of craving approval (especially after heartbreak), Elisabeth opens the door to a deeper conversation around truth, worthiness, and radical self-honesty.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, dismissed, or like your pain didn’t “count” unless someone else acknowledged it, this episode is for you.

You’ll learn:

• Why we crave external validation (and how it’s not your fault)

• How the ego uses validation to protect us — but also sabotage us

• The subtle ways validation-seeking keeps us stuck in our healing journey

• What it means to self-validate and reclaim your inner authority

• Practices to start validating yourself every single day

LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE

• The brand new healing app is LIVE - download the Rising Sisterhood app today and take some positive steps for your healing starting now: https://www.theseparationclub.com/risingsisterhoodapp
• Take a bigger step towards healing and growth and join my 3 night / 4 day Lake House Retreat, June 12-15th. All the details can be found here: https://theseparationclub.com/lake-retreat
• Kickstart your healing with the brand new JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal
• I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/coaching
• You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call
• Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist

• FREE MASTERCLASS: Register for our next free Masterclass: https://www.theseparationclub.com/masterclass

• Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/
• You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.
• And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444

In this rather different episode, I get real about a sensitive but important topic: the tendency for women to generalize and hate men after divorce — and why that mindset, while understandable, doesn’t actually serve your healing, or theirs.

I talk about:

• Why anger and grief after betrayal are valid — but hate is not the path to freedom

• How generalizing “all men” keeps us stuck in pain, bitterness, and disconnection

• What it’s costing you emotionally, spiritually, and energetically to carry hate

• A deeper look into the masculine wound and why many men are emotionally unavailable (without excusing the harm they cause)

• How you can heal with integrity, reclaim your power, and move forward without carrying hate in your heart

You’ll leave this episode feeling seen, softened, and empowered to choose healing that truly sets you free.

And I am excited to hear your thoughts about this episode. You can leave a review, share this episode on socials or send me an email: wecanhelp@theseparationclub.com

LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE:

• The brand new healing app is LIVE - download the Rising Sisterhood app today and take some positive steps for your healing starting now: https://www.theseparationclub.com/risingsisterhoodapp
• Take a bigger step towards healing and growth and join my 3 night / 4 day Lake House Retreat, June 12-15th. All the details can be found here: https://theseparationclub.com/lake-retreat
• Kickstart your healing with the brand new JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal
• I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/coaching
• You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call
• Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist

• FREE MASTERCLASS: Register for our next free Masterclass: https://www.theseparationclub.com/masterclass

• Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/
• You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.
• And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444

Today we’re diving into a topic that feels so close to the heart - how to manifest love and happiness in your life after divorce. I've talked about this before but we're doing it again a little differently.

I know you want to attract love and happiness in your life, but this is not about attracting someone else. Let's start by attracting YOU! Become the source of the love and joy you crave and watch everything else fall into place. If you’re ready to feel good again—to feel whole, vibrant, and deeply fulfilled—this episode is for you.

Some of the highlights:

• Why self-love is the root of all manifestation.

• Daily self-love rituals like mirror work, affirmations, loving-kindness meditation.

• And make sure to check out the brand new Rising Sisterhood App which includes meditations specifically created for self-love and healing.

We are also rewriting the story of love

• Releasing the belief that love is limited or only comes from a partner.
• Manifesting from a place of wholeness vs. lack.

And.. calling in a new and higher vibration

• With practices that raise your frequency

• Having healthy boundaries and sacred standards

Below are some ways you can start doing this deep work whether it is coaching with me one on one, journaling in The Joy Journal, booking a retreat and definitely downloading the new app.

LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE

• The brand new healing app is LIVE - download the Rising Sisterhood app today and take some positive steps for your healing starting now: https://www.theseparationclub.com/risingsisterhoodapp
• Take a bigger step towards healing and growth and join my 3 night / 4 day Lake House Retreat, June 12-15th. All the details can be found here: https://theseparationclub.com/lake-retreat
• Kickstart your healing with the brand new JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal
• I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/coaching
• You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call
• Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist

• FREE MASTERCLASS: Register for our next free Masterclass: https://www.theseparationclub.com/masterclass

• Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/
• You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.
• And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444