112: Hating or blaming men does not make healing from divorce easier or more rightous

In this rather different episode, I get real about a sensitive but important topic: the tendency for women to generalize and hate men after divorce — and why that mindset, while understandable, doesn’t actually serve your healing, or theirs.

I talk about:

• Why anger and grief after betrayal are valid — but hate is not the path to freedom

• How generalizing “all men” keeps us stuck in pain, bitterness, and disconnection

• What it’s costing you emotionally, spiritually, and energetically to carry hate

• A deeper look into the masculine wound and why many men are emotionally unavailable (without excusing the harm they cause)

• How you can heal with integrity, reclaim your power, and move forward without carrying hate in your heart

You’ll leave this episode feeling seen, softened, and empowered to choose healing that truly sets you free.

And I am excited to hear your thoughts about this episode. You can leave a review, share this episode on socials or send me an email: [e-mail]

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• I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/coaching
• You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call
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