Are you falling in love with potential instead of reality?

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, I’m diving into three critical mistakes love addicts make when dating—mistakes that can keep you stuck in unhealthy cycles. Whether you're unknowingly romanticizing red flags, struggling to walk away from emotionally unavailable partners, or making dating your full-time job, this episode will help you break free from these patterns.

In this episode, we cover…

• 03:00 - Why falling in love with potential keeps you stuck
• 10:45 - The importance of trusting your instincts when red flags appear
• 17:30 - How making dating your hobby can lead to emotional burnout
• 24:15 - Breaking the cycle of fantasy-driven relationships
• 30:40 - Practical steps to build a fulfilling life outside of dating

Resources mentioned in the episode:

• Download the Free Love Addiction & Avoidance Roadmap: blackgirlsheal.org/roadmap
• Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled: blackgirlsheal.org/love-addiction-recovery
• Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements: blackgirlsheal.org/retired

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