What does healthy love actually look like in today’s dating world? And how do you heal enough to recognize it when it finds you?

This week, the Aunties are joined by relationship expert Love McPherson for a powerful conversation about modern dating, therapy, healing, and the misconceptions keeping so many people stuck in unhealthy patterns.

We unpack the dating advice people keep getting wrong, how past wounds affect present relationships, why therapy can transform the way you love, and what it really takes to move forward in dating with wisdom, healing, and intention.

If you’re trying to unlearn toxic dating habits, heal from your past, and build healthier relationships… this episode is for you.

In this episode we discuss:

• How therapy impacts your dating life

• Common misconceptions about modern dating

• Healing before entering healthy love

• Practical ways to move forward in dating intentionally

• What healthy relationship dynamics actually look like

Guest: @love_mcpherson

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Ever had a moment where life felt completely off track… only to realize later it was all part of God’s plan?

This week, the Aunties are joined by Tobias Devon, also known as Mr. “Now Throw Your Hands Up,” for a conversation that is equal parts hilarious and deeply affirming. From unexpected life detours to divine redirection, we unpack how what feels like a setback might actually be God setting you up.

We talk about:

• trusting God when life doesn’t make sense

• how “bad timing” can actually be divine rest

• the plot twists that shaped our purpose

• finding joy, laughter, and faith in the middle of uncertainty

There are laughs, real moments, and reminders that God is always working, even when it looks like nothing is.

If you’ve ever questioned what God is doing in your life, this one is for you.

Guest: @iamtobiasdevon

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Being open online sounds cute… until it’s not.

This week, the Aunties get real about what it actually costs to be transparent on social media. From people twisting your words to being willfully obtuse in the comments, we’re unpacking how social media impacts what we share, how we show up, and what we choose to hold back.

We talk about the pressure of being “relatable,” the emotional toll of constantly being misunderstood, and the fine line between authenticity and overexposure. Because while vulnerability builds connection, it also invites opinions, projections, and narratives that aren’t always rooted in truth.

If you’ve ever felt misread, misquoted, or just plain tired of explaining yourself online… this one is for you.

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Being the “good girl” sounds beautiful… until real life starts lifing.

We’re unpacking church girl problems from growing up as the “saved,” “well-behaved,” “set apart” girl to navigating dating, boundaries, identity, and real-world experiences as an adult woman of faith.

We’re talking about the pressure to be perfect, the fear of getting it wrong, the things we were taught (and what we had to unlearn), and the tension between honoring God and actually living a full, honest life.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you were raised to be and who you’re becoming… this one is for you.

Because being a good girl doesn’t mean losing yourself and holiness and wholeness should go hand in hand.

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You say you want better… but are you actually doing what it takes to get it?

This week, the Aunties get real about accountability… the kind we expect from ourselves, from each other, and from the people around us. We’re talking about what it looks like to be checked in love, how to receive correction without getting defensive, and why growth requires more than just saying you want it.

We unpack the difference between support and enablement, how friendship accountability can sharpen or strain a relationship, and the role the outside world plays in holding us to a higher standard. Because let’s be honest… everybody wants accountability until it’s time to be accountable.

If you’ve ever said “I’m working on it,” this episode might lovingly ask… are you really?

Tap in for honest conversation, real-life examples, and the kind of perspective that will have you checking yourself and your circle.

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Dating as a “good church girl” can come with a lot of rules, expectations, and teachings that shape how we approach relationships. In this episode, the Aunties sit down with special guest Torah Cents to unpack what many Christian women were taught about dating, men, and relationships and what might need to be unlearned.

From purity culture and church messaging to real-life dating experiences, we explore the misconceptions that can keep women stuck, confused, or settling for less than they deserve. We talk about the difference between wisdom and fear-based dating advice, the importance of self-awareness, and how women of faith can approach dating in a healthier, more empowered way.

If you’ve ever felt like your dating life has been shaped by teachings that didn’t fully prepare you for real relationships, this conversation is for you. Join us as we discuss how to break old patterns, embrace new perspectives, and start dating with clarity, confidence, and intention.

IG: @TorahCents

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Sometimes the very thing we pray for guidance from God can also bring a surprising amount of anxiety and pressure.

In this episode of Your Favorite Aunties Podcast, Sham and Nia get honest about the emotional and spiritual tension that can come with seeking God’s direction for your life. From wondering if you’re truly hearing God correctly to feeling the weight of making the “right” decision, we unpack the very real anxiety that can show up when you’re trying to walk in obedience.

We talk about the pressure Christians sometimes feel to get every step right, the fear of missing God’s plan, and how to navigate the space between faith, discernment, and overthinking. Because let’s be honest trusting God sounds simple… until you’re the one who has to actually make the move.

If you’ve ever prayed for clarity, asked God for a sign, or wrestled with whether you’re walking in purpose or just overanalyzing every decision, this conversation is for you.

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This week, Your Favorite Aunties welcome back Christian sexologist Brittany Broaddus-Smith for a real, grown, and necessary conversation the church doesn’t always know how to have.

We’re unpacking sexual hygiene, healthy sexual conduct, and the truth about how purity culture and church messaging have shaped the way many believers experience sex and intimacy. From the gaps in sex education within Christian spaces to the shame many people quietly carry, this episode gets honest about what’s helping… and what’s hurting.

If you’ve ever struggled with sexual shame, confusion around intimacy, or wondered what healthy, God-honoring sexuality actually looks like, this conversation is for you.

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