It's Not Okay

Turning Heartbreak into Happily Never After

De: Andi Dorfman

Narrado por: Andi Dorfman

Andi Dorfman, the beloved finalist of season eighteen of The Bachelor who infamously rejected Juan Pablo and went on to star on season ten of The Bachelorette, dishes about what it’s like to live out a love story—and its collapse—in front of the cameras, offering hard-won advice for moving on after a break-up, public or not.

Andi talks candidly about what it’s like to be courted by twenty-five handsome, single men in this juicy, insider’s peek at dating—and breaking up—on national TV. She shares entertaining and heartfelt stories about her fellow Bachelor alums—many of whom are still close friends—comes clean about calling out Bachelor #18 Juan Pablo for bad behavior, and reflects on her personal challenges and uplifting experiences in love that she hopes will help you get through your own break-ups with grace and style!

Honest Account of Heartbreak Many Can Learn From

I wanted to hear Andi's story, and I thought this was a very honest and raw account. She isn't bashing her ex the whole time and, if fact, even throws some compliments his way. Plus, she is very transparent about her part, which doesn't always paint her in the best light. I applaud her bravery and courage to share her story and move on to her next chapter. I think a lot of young women can learn from her. Kudos, Andi and good luck in NYC!

Honesty is the best policy!

I liked the book, and I liked the fact that Andi didn't sugar coat anything. Like her or not, she tells it like it is!! Or should I say her story like it is!! You go girl!

Exactly what I expected

There are some harsh reviews about the book what I would say is it is by far not the most impressive literary work I've ever read. However, what it is, is truthful and funny. Andi says a lot of the things us girls struggling with a broken heart think but may be afraid to say outloud. While of course my recent heart break did not afford me the opportunity to sit around, drink and not leave the house, there were so many relatable moments in the book that made up for the moments where I wanted to scream come on and get it together. Walk into this with the expectation that you will hear a story about a girl with a broken heart and that you will laugh and cringe along the way and you will find what you are looking for. Bonus relatable moments for the girl who has been through emotional abuse... you know that relationship where he didn't hit you but you found yourself doubting your worth because of his words and jealousy. This book is definitely for you.

Trying to be a female Howard Stern

Would you consider the audio edition of It's Not Okay to be better than the print version?

I enjoyed the book overall, but there were times where the cursing seemed very forced. I maybe realized it more since I was listening rather than reading. I just found it to take away from the story.

Would you be willing to try another book from Andi Dorfman? Why or why not?

Probably.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

I listened to it in 2 sittings.

Loved this book!

If you are a fan of the Bachelor or the Bachelorette you will love this. If you're going through a breakup and have never seen either show you would also love this!