Summary
Everything I Never Told You, published in 2014, is the debut novel of critically acclaimed author Celeste Ng. Set in 1970s Ohio, the novel explores themes of identity, belonging, the weight of parental expectations, loss, and grief through the gripping tale of a Chinese-American family. The novel topped Amazon's Best Books of the Year list for 2014 and garnered numerous accolades, including the Massachusetts Book Award and the Asian/Pacific American Award for Literature.
Plot
Set in 1970s Ohio, Everything I Never Told You opens with the death of Lydia Lee, the middle child of a Chinese-American family. Her body is found in the local lake, shocking her parents, James and Marilyn Lee. As the police investigate, it becomes clear that Lydia's life was not what her parents believed it to be. Contrary to their assumptions about her popularity and academic success, Lydia was isolated and struggling in school.
The novel delves into the past, revealing how James and Marilyn met and married. James, the son of Chinese immigrants, yearned for acceptance, while Marilyn dreamed of becoming a doctor. Their marriage and move to Ohio led to Marilyn abandoning her career aspirations to become a homemaker, a decision she later regretted. This regret manifested in her pushing Lydia to pursue a medical career, placing immense pressure on her daughter.
Meanwhile, James favored Lydia over their son, Nathan, hoping she would achieve the social acceptance he never had. This favoritism created tension between the siblings, though they eventually formed a close bond. As teenagers, Lydia struggled with her parents' expectations and began spending time with Jack, a neighbor boy. Nathan, feeling neglected, was accepted to Harvard, but Lydia hid his acceptance letter, fearing abandonment.
On the night of her death, Lydia went to the lake intending to face her fears by swimming. Tragically, she drowned. In the aftermath, James has an affair, and Marilyn discovers the truth about their daughter's life. The family must confront their long-held secrets and misunderstandings. Nathan, still suspecting Jack's involvement in Lydia's death, confronts him at the lake. The novel concludes with the family beginning to address their grief and the rifts between them.
Themes
Family dynamics and expectations
Racial identity and discrimination