How did this happen? Was it that they were just with the wrong people? They both trolled the online sites, he looking for a beautiful BBW he could have a sexual bond with and she for a man - any man who would not mock her for being fat. That was how they both found each other. It was difficult at first, but he managed to get through her impenetrable barriers, getting her to reveal herself to him, getting her to agree to meet with him.