You're stupid. Ugly. Too short, tall, skinny, fat, dark, light, or slow. You'll never amount to much. You don't measure up. You're not good enough. I don't want you. Failure. Damaged goods. Loser. Ouch! There are as many labels as there are abusive parents, schoolyard bullies, mean girls, and self-righteous preachers to slap them on you. The two most important labels in your life are how you label yourself and how you label God. These labels create self-fulfilling prophecies. They determine how you relate to yourself, to others, and to God.