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How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive

A Practical Guide to Making Your Fantasies a Reality

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How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive

By: Kate Kinsey
Narrated by: Alexandra Shawnee
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Beyond Fifty Shades of Grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real-life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had.

Erotic author Kate Kinsey brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.

Topics covered include:

  • The differences between dominants and masters
  • Submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms
  • The different dominant styles
  • The truth about "training" to be a submissive
  • How to find like-minded folks in your area
  • How to negotiate scenes and relationships
  • What to expect at your first dungeon party
  • Why some people actually enjoy pain
  • And the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners

Contains mature themes.

©2014 Kate Kinsey (P)2018 Tantor Personal Development Psychology Psychology & Mental Health BDSM Fiction Happiness
Valuable Guidance • Informative Content • Humorous Approach • Practical Advice • Comprehensive Coverage

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after 30+ yrs in the lifestyle, i can honestly say i agree with maybe 90% of the info in this book as it pertains to those starting to explore BDSM and advice i myself have given many newcomers. Read well, in a pleasant voice without wasting a lot of your time. I will be recommending this book to those starting their journey. I would disagree with the title. while this information will prevent some frustration or mistakes which can become serious, it won’t guarantee you are either heathy or happy.

good for those new to lifestyle

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I absolutely loved this book. It was full of so much important information. I would definitely recommend it.

Wow

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This book is a short no nonsense description of culture in a culture.
The writer is humerus in the right places for my tastes to express the seriousness of this type of life exploration. I hope you find the communication tools you need.

Informative

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Good information and knowledge. I really enjoyed this book and narration. I really liked the analogy about the buffet.

Extremely informational

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Often, “How to” kink/BDSM literature comes across so cheesy with female narrators attempting a sexy voice - annoying & distracting! Kinsey is matter-of-fact & entertaining, & provides truly valuable rules & etiquette that, if followed-could save one from unwanted, painful (not the good kind)abuse, gaslighting, manipulative psychos hiding behind the title of Sir/Master/Daddy. Read this! Especially, if you’re new to the scene & trying to navigate this exciting, mysterious community.

Highly intelligent, beautifully written, easily understood

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