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Now You're Speaking My Language Audiobook

Now You're Speaking My Language: Honest Communication and Deeper Intimacy for a Stronger Marriage

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Publisher's Summary

Now You're Speaking My Language is the anticipated paperback edition of Gary Chapman's 2004 Gold Medallion award winner, Covenant Marriage. This especially popular book from the multimillion selling author encourages husbands and wives to offer steadfast loyalty, forgiveness, empathy, and commitment to resolving conflict, thus encouraging each other in spiritual growth.

Quite masterfully, Dr. Chapman shows how communication and intimacy are key points in developing a successful marriage by focusing on these principles:

  • Lasting answers to marital growth are found in the Bible.
  • Your relationship with God enhances your marriage relationship.
  • Communication is the main way two become one in a marriage.
  • Biblical oneness involves sex, but also intellectual, spiritual, emotional, and social oneness.

    ©2007 Gary Chapman; (P)2008 Oasis Audio

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      dimitry kopets 07-21-16
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      "This book helped"

      I like this author. This book helped me improve communication with my fiancée, before we got married and now it continues to be a good guide in my marriage. The things I really got out of this book was communication and how to improve spiritual growth together.

      Thank you and God bleass you Gary

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      R.C. Houston, TX 06-16-15
      R.C. Houston, TX 06-16-15 Member Since 2016

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      "Excellent resource, great info."

      Alot of great info, I will have to listen again to try and catch what I missed.

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      posh shopper 05-21-15 Member Since 2014
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      "Corrective Lenses!"

      My eyes on marriage were given corrective Lenses!
      I absolutely appreciate the understanding I now have of a Contractual Marriage and a Covenant Marriage.
      Excellent narrator. The speed of his reading was perfect and not at all monotone.

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      Eliza Huff 04-13-15
      Eliza Huff 04-13-15
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      "Excellent read with practical guidelines!"

      This book by Gary Chapman has been wonderful to listen to! He engages the audience well and he gives practical guidelines throughout the book to help in many specific areas of your marriage!

      I gave this book four stars due to my disagreement with Mr. Chapman's opinion on staying in an abusive marriage (he discusses this in one of the first chapters on covenant marriage). At first I thought that I must have miss heard or misunderstood what the author was saying. After research I found that Mr. Chapman truly does advise spouses that are being abused to stay in the relationship. Yes with help, but, because of his view on covenant marriages he does not agree with dissolving the marriage in any case. I understand that this is simply my opinion, however, I could not in good conscience give this book 5 stars because of this opinion.

      However! Outside of this one disagreement with Mr. Chapman. I fully support this book and how wonderful the advice and the engagement with the audience is!

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      Maury Davis SAGINAW, MI, US 03-23-10
      Maury Davis SAGINAW, MI, US 03-23-10 Listener Since 2007
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      "Awesome help for a relationship"

      A lot of great insight here. Very helpful ideas on how to totally improve and rebuild any relationship.

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      Idaho Trojan 06-30-14
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      "Lots of Bible verses"
      Is there anything you would change about this book?

      Too many Bible verse quotes for me, but still a good book.


      Would you be willing to try another book from Gary Chapman? Why or why not?

      Yes


      Did Now You're Speaking My Language inspire you to do anything?

      Better communication, seeing both sides, a few good simple steps to get there.


      Any additional comments?

      I thought Desperate Marriages and Five Love Languages were MUCH better!

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      Merry Moon 12-29-13
      Merry Moon 12-29-13 Member Since 2014
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      This is too religious for me. I did not realize it would be so "biblical". I would like a refund. I listened to chapter 5, I think, giving it a chance. Mr. Chapman, the author, narrates this and has a nice voice.

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