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It's Just a F***ing Date | [Greg Behrendt, Amiira Ruotola]

It's Just a F***ing Date

A fun and funny guide to dating from the New York Times best-selling authors of It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken and He's Just Not That Into You. Why does dating have to be so hard? It doesn’t! Stop trying to out-game the system and relax. It's Just a Fucking Date presents the tools, not the rules, for bringing back the art of the date. The ordeals of 21st-century dating, from online dating and hooking up to pulling the plug when it isn’t working, will soon be easy to navigate.
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Publisher's Summary

A fun and funny guide to dating from the New York Times best-selling authors of It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken and He's Just Not That Into You.

Why does dating have to be so hard? It doesn’t! Stop trying to out-game the system and relax. It's Just a Fucking Date presents the tools, not the rules, for bringing back the art of the date. The ordeals of 21st-century dating, from online dating and hooking up to pulling the plug when it isn’t working, will soon be easy to navigate. With tips to define what is and isn’t a date, how to get asked out, and setting your own dating standards, dating won’t seem old-fashioned, it will be fun. Best-selling authors Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola return to the minefield of modern relationships with this revised and updated edition.

©2013 Greg Behrendt & Amiira Ruotola (P)2013 Audible Inc.

What the Critics Say

"The book is jam-packed with straight-talking tips on how to bag your man, and quite frankly, we can’t put it down." (The Sun)

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    Jann Beverly Hills, CA, United States 07-04-14
    Jann Beverly Hills, CA, United States 07-04-14 Member Since 2008
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    "if you read one book about dating, choose this one"

    I have read over and over all of Greg and Amira's books - in fact I read It's Called a Break-Up Because It's Broken so many times I had to replace it. This book has pointed out in the nicest of ways what I have been doing to de-rail my own relationships. I am two months into dating the most remarkable man I have ever met in my life (I am 49) and I have already stopped myself from repeating old bad patterns because of this book. If we get married, I am inviting Greg and Amira to my wedding.

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    susan warren 07-02-14 Member Since 2012
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    "Profound! Entertaining! Life-changing! Funny!"
    Would you listen to It's Just a F***ing Date again? Why?

    I've listened over and over again to ensure their message, "It's Just a f**ing Date" is tattooed on my brain. Greg and Amira hilariously explain and model every step a gal should take to that right man. Their easy methods for nudging a man into a pursuer come to life especially when Amira acts them out. Greg, her husband, knows how guys really think. He also knows how women tend to idealize love and give into their emotions too quickly freaking men out. He sincerely wants us to act in our own best interest and speaks as if he is an older wiser loving brother. Anyway, men are meant to pursue. This book teaches how to light the trail for the right man to catch us.


    What other book might you compare It's Just a F***ing Date to and why?

    Their style is unique and magical as they switch narration back and forth making it feel like a personal conversation. It compares in tone to "Why Your Not Married Yet," and "You Are A Badass."


    What does Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    If I had just read this book, I'd miss the personable real tone that brings their message to life.


    What did you learn from It's Just a F***ing Date that you would use in your daily life?

    I've already used the lessons to improve my life. I've come away renewed and clear about who I am on my dating journey and how to make sure I end up with a great guy who wants a great relationship with me. I now know to never settle for a 'hang-out" with a guy but how to easily get asked out while keeping my worth in tact. Just yesterday, I controlled an urge to send an emotional text. It wasn't easy because I was pretty upset, but the amazing thing is: today I was rewarded. He contacted me and was none the wiser that I had had a mini break-down over my own personalizing perception of really- nothing. I'm also proud of pulling myself out of that emotional pit by following the wisdom in this book.


    Any additional comments?

    I hope that this message is heard by all especially my daughter.Thank you Greg and Amira! You really get it. Thank you.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    LaTasha belton, SC, United States 03-09-14
    LaTasha belton, SC, United States 03-09-14 Member Since 2012
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    If you could sum up It's Just a F***ing Date in three words, what would they be?

    practical-solid-advice


    What did you like best about this story?

    The advice and the style in which it was written! I also enjoyed the narration.


    What about Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola ’s performance did you like?

    It was just a good balance of the male and female perspective.


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Yeah it's really been a pleasure to listen to.


    Any additional comments?

    One of my most enjoyable reading thus far. This book has been added to my 'favorites list'!

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    KC California 03-07-14
    KC California 03-07-14
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    "Genius! Every single girl MUST read this book!"
    Would you consider the audio edition of It's Just a F***ing Date to be better than the print version?

    Listening to Greg and Amira tell tales of dating and give advice in their own words makes it that much more poignant. And hilarious.


    What other book might you compare It's Just a F***ing Date to and why?

    Great follow-up to "He's Just Not That Into You." Takes dating back to how it is supposed to be - a long, slow, fun way to meet and try out new people and relationships.


    Have you listened to any of Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola ’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    I'm downloading all of their other books immediately. So much fun to listen to these on my commute (while taking copious notes).


    What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

    Remembering to let go of all the worry and trepidation of dating and realize "it's just a f*cking date" takes so much stress off a girl's plate.


    Any additional comments?

    This book is chock-full of awesome advice for any single girl. They cover a whole myriad of ways on how you're getting in your own way when it comes to dating.

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