The Shift

Change Your Perspective, Not Yourself

By: Tinx

Narrated by: Tinx

Length: 5 hrs and 17 mins

Publisher's summary

The lifestyle creator, advice expert, and host of the It’s Me, Tinx podcast shares her hilarious and (sometimes brutally) honest wisdom on how to shift your approach to life, step into your confidence, and enjoy the journey.

It’s time to get laser focused on what makes us feel happy and fulfilled. Lifestyle creator, advice expert, and podcast host Tinx wants to take your hand and guide you to a new way of thinking about life, love, happiness, and friendships—where dating evolves into era of self-discovery and not just a means to an end, sharing wisdom becomes a collective power, and chaos turns into a source of creativity. Making small but mighty shifts in thinking can be a tool for personal growth that fuels you instead of fatigues you. The point is to know yourself, discover what you fulfills you, and have fun along the way.

In The Shift, Tinx collects all her revolutionary theories and hilarious personal anecdotes in one place, presenting you with a guide to simple mindset shifts that will completely change the way you approach decision making and relationships.

Through her own stories, from the good to the bad, Tinx will help you better understand how to step into your power and own self-worth. Some say you cannot love another before you learn to love yourself: Tinx will teach you how to do both at the same time. And she’ll do it while making you laugh out loud.

With her signature wit and candor, Tinx will teach you:
-How to change your scarcity mindset
-How to understand and employ her famous Box Theory dating concept
-How to feed the things that fulfill you
-How living well is the best revenge
-How therapy can reframe struggles into strengths
-How to break up with dignity
-How knowing your worth makes you a better friend and partner

©2023 Christina Najjar (P)2023 Simon & Schuster, Inc.

Critic reviews

"At the top of this audiobook, Tinx, an influencer previously known as Christina Najjar, says she’s going to provide some “holy fucking shit breakthroughs” you can use on a daily basis. And I have to say, her advice is pretty damn good — perhaps the most grounded and salient wisdom about trusting yourself and simply adjusting your perspective I’ve heard in a long time. It helps that Tinx is both direct and self-effacing as she’s offering it up." (Marshall Heyman)

Let’s shift, girls

This is the book and from the big sister that every z-illennial girl needs!

Required reading

I am 32 and wish I had this book in my 20s. That being said, it’s serves as a great reminder and refresher about being independent and looking forward. Tinx has a great perspective and this is all amazing advice

Authentic

She’s 100% true and authentic. I am so grateful to her. Real and someone who “gets it.” Thank you.

Witty and insightful.

Loved this. We are never too old to remember our worth and embrace the things that being us joy and make us who we are.
Perfect light summer weekend read/listen.

Honest, wish i had this in my 20’s

This is such a beautiful real book,
Gentle honest kind
Cried at the end and laughed through it
Thank you Tinx

Everything I wanted and more.

Tinx is both relatable and insightful. This book has lit a fire in me to focus on myself and my friendships and to treat every experience as an opportunity for growth and learning about yourself. A must-read for women of all ages.

Authentically written

This was the first audiobook I have ever listened to straight through. It was relatable, authentic, and to the point. I bookmarked so many spots that I can’t wait to play back for my friends. Thank you, Tinx for being vulnerable with us. Shifting as we speak!!

Every woman should read!

I am probably not her target audience here as I’m in my late 30’s and not in the dating scene. However, this book was incredible and I LOVE that Tinx read it herself for the audio book. Well done Tinx, can’t wait for the next one!

Finally, the voice of our generation!

If only this advice, and shifts, had been around to save me from myself during my 20s! The book is fun and enjoyable but the content is serious business- pointing out societal flaws and how women can empower themselves to overcome the obstacles/pressure/patriarchy. My twin daughters are 15 months old and this will be the first book I give them when they are old enough to get it!! Thank you Tinx! 💜💜💜

A must listen!

In her usual wit and funny banter, Tinx continues to give the best advice - a must listen for all girls single or not and of all ages