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He's Just Not That Into You

By: Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo
Narrated by: Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo
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He's Just Not That Into You, based on the popular episode of Sex and the City, educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.

Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you".

He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out", consider the glorious thought that maybe He's Just Not That Into You. And then set yourself loose to find the one who is.

©2004 Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo (P)2004 Simon & Schuster Audio

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"By all means read this smart, funny, and surprisingly upbeat little book." (Publishers Weekly)

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Wonderful book

I wish someone had giving me this book when i started dating. Oh all the headache one could save.

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Amazing and empowering.

I wish I had read this 10 years ago. Should be required reading for every woman before they start dating.

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ladies, you need to read this

truth bomb. loved it. I am empowered and much happier already. in the age of tinder, you need this on repeat.

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Listen with a new pair of ears. Or just turn your

I love it i am a female version of Greg and all my friends keep telling me I'm to hard on guys. BS I'm sending this book to all of my friends

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Every single, hetero woman needs to read this book

If you could sum up He's Just Not That Into You in three words, what would they be?

You Deserve Better

What about Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo ’s performance did you like?

Greg and Liz are great narrators - good voices and rhythm. Greg's background in stand-up comedy makes his narrations particularly good.

If you were to make a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

Uh, they already made a film of this book.

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This book is filled with truths that are hard to hear - but it's oddly comforting to know that the mixed messages behavior men do isn't unique. It's (sadly) common; I've had guy friends confirm on more than one occasion that what the book says about male behavior is indeed true. Though reading it can sometimes feel like your hopes are being dashed, once you start applying the principles in the book, you'll find that your life is much happier and filled with a lot less stress, tears, and bullsh*t. The message of the book is

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A BIG help for dating, married and divorced women!

I'm a woman who was married 20 plus years and could have used the information in this book years ago! It's information I can apply to all relationships really, not just dating ones. It's about having boundaries and taking the power back to live my life based upon my personal choices and what I choose to settle for. I'm inspired to require more and quit making excuses for men too immature or unhealthy to have a real, authentic relationship, even if that means being alone. I'm pretty good company if I do say so myself! 😊

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This book is a lot of fun!

I am a guy, and I bought this book and enjoyed it for its entertainment value. I couldn't stop listening, it was so funny and engaging. I keep giggling, LOL!

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Awesome book

Refreshing and brutally true filled with insight and practical advice. A mudt read book!

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Best Advice I Could Have Asked For

I was so ready for this information. Wish I had it at 17 yrs (now 59). Our 40 or 50 year history has been that we females have lowered the bar so much that men do not value us to anything near the degree we deserve. It’s time that women raise the bar and show men they’re not getting dates (or more dates) unless/until they show us they are deserving. We need to value ourselves far more, ladies. “Don’t waste the pretty” as the authors say.

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Truth

Appreciated the hard truth and a glimpse of the way men think coming from Greg in most every senario. Thank you both!

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