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  • Get the Guy

  • Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve
  • By: Matthew Hussey
  • Narrated by: Matthew Hussey
  • Length: 7 hrs and 59 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (3,494 ratings)

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Get the Guy

By: Matthew Hussey
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Publisher's summary

Audie Award Finalist, Personal Development, 2014

Most dating books tell you what not to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you can do.

In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey - relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love - reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.

Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance.

From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew’s insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she’s been waiting for.

©2013 Monument Investment Partners Ltd. (P)2013 HarperCollins Publishers

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For ladies of all ages

I wish I’d heard some of this material in my 20s. Frankly, it took me a decades or more to feel so secure in my skin that I could actually use this material. There’s some great material in here. The boiled down version is don’t give him more time than he’s earned. Actions are louder than potential. This was great material for an audiobook. I finished it in a weekend

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Mind changing book

This book is fantastic! It really changed my mindset on how I view myself, relationships, and when looking for them. I lacked so much confidence before and when I followed the tips in this book, I’ve been hit on WAY more and are talking to potential mates. I have and will recommend this to everyone

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very eye opening

Thank you Matthew for sharing this it opened me you ways that I could not have imagined.

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Matthew is a breath of fresh air!

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Absolutely! This book takes the hard facts of dating in this modern world and makes it a little easier to digest all while making you strong with every chapter!

What other book might you compare Get the Guy to and why?

Not sure. The closest that I could come to is "He's Just Not That Into You".

What does Matthew Hussey bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

His amazing personality! I'm sure it could be easily read in the book but listening to Matthew while I work, cook, clean, drive and get ready for bed is the best treat throughout my day. I'll even listen to him getting ready for my dates and it's an amazing confidence boost before stepping across that threshold from home to first date.

If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

Don't accept another date until you've met Matthew!

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This book was such a breath of fresh air! Matthew delivers some of the hardest facts of modern dating in such an eloquent and hilarious way and it's brilliant! Women looking for true love, myself included, take life and dating way too seriously and if we just learn to let go, be ourselves and just have fun the rest will come. Thank you Matthew. I will never stop listening to this book.

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Not bad

the narrator is very good! He is the writer btw.
The book is useful and helps me understand the world of guys. But I hope there could be more lines that I can learn in a fun conversation

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Too many plug ins

Knowledge was great, but Hussey plugged in his videos far too often. The video links he provided did not work for me either. Felt like some of the video content mentioned should have been included, especially since I’m paying for it.

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Good read (listen to) for anyone...

I liked the pizzazz and energy Matthew brings to his book. I love the advice followed by examples. I personally didn't watch the videos that came after the chapters, (but plan to when I listen a second go through) but I think it's a nice touch. I would recommend this book if anything, to at least know how you can stay cool as a cucumber, through, what may seem like, earth shattering events/convos that come up in the relationship.

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Best investment ever! Wish I'd heard it sooner!

This information would've saved me YEARS of grief! Don't wait! Become aware of your mistakes!

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LEARN ABOUT MEN FROM A MAN

I would recommend that all women read this book. Matthew teaches you to be a better version of yourself and live the life you always dreamed of so that attracting a high value man will come naturally. The fact that he reads it himself and incorporates videos is a bonus!

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Authentic information and well delivered.

Really enjoyed the book and listened to every word without boredom or ho-hums. Looking forward to listening to his other books.

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