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Become Your Own Matchmaker Audiobook

Become Your Own Matchmaker: Eight Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate

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"If you've ever found yourself picking off your nail polish, sitting in your sweats with an empty carton of Ben & Jerry's, wondering, "Where are all the good men, and why isn't a gorgeous one standing shirtless in my kitchen mixing me up a pomegranate mojito?" I hate to tell you this, but it's your own fault. Not to worry - I'm here to help you make that fantasy a reality, with one major addition: you'll be sipping that mojito with a big, glittering diamond ring on your left hand.

"Sounds too good to be true? It isn't. As a third-generation matchmaker and the president of one of the world's most elite dating services - the Millionaire's Club - I've put myself in the enviable position of being friend, confidante, and relationship counselor to men and women the world over. I know what the good guys want in a wife, and what sends them screaming into the night. Now I'm sharing their secrets with you.

"I've compiled my best tried-and-true advice and I'm going to tell you the things that even your best friend doesn't have the courage to break to you. If you follow my formula, the man of your dreams will appear in your life, and you can be in a committed, monogamous relationship with him in less than a year. Get ready - I'm about to show you how to make all your relationship dreams come true."

©2009 Patti Stanger; (P)2009 Simon and Schuster

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    Apolloinus 07-22-15
    Apolloinus 07-22-15 Member Since 2013
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    "Very beneficial. I loved it"

    Very helpful, went through things I needed to learn. I will definitely be applying all she taught me. I love this book by Patti and I think mote matchmakers should make books

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Katherine Watson 07-06-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Best advice yet"

    Clear, concise, executable; none sense free and you know what? I met THREE guys the first day I listened to the book after leaving the gym and heading to lunch. Seems to work!

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    stephanie 05-15-15
    stephanie 05-15-15 Member Since 2015
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    "loved it!"

    Patti knows how to attract the perfect mate. great advice,
    loved that she is the narrator!

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    jessica 04-16-15
    jessica 04-16-15
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    "Great audio"

    Love patty's advice. I'm glad I can listen to this. Will listen again
    The three C to a relationship good advice

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    Timothy ROSWELL, NM, United States 08-04-12
    Timothy ROSWELL, NM, United States 08-04-12 Member Since 2014
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    "BEWARE The Title is misleading"
    Any additional comments?

    I was disappointed in a positive way. The title made me think the book would be more gender neutral. I like Patti (Author) so don't want this to sound to negative. This book was written by a woman for women. FEMALES: If you are looking for a book that tells you step by step how to go from meeting a man to marriage, this is book is well written with lots of stories. MEN: Patti knows what she is talking about, for both men and women. The book is worth the read/listen to. Especially if you want to know that the other side is being taught. As a man I did get some ahha's, but had to pay attention because it was all aimed toward the female... Hope this helps.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Edwina Bda 07-31-12
    Edwina Bda 07-31-12 Member Since 2010

    I liked to read as a child and thanks to Audible, I'm able to multitask whilst enjoying 'Me Time' in the form of a good book.

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    "Great Info to work with"
    Where does Become Your Own Matchmaker rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    I place it at # 4 on my top 10 list.


    What other book might you compare Become Your Own Matchmaker to and why?

    None. I make sure I don't purchase the same types of books.


    Which character – as performed by Patti Stanger – was your favorite?

    n/a


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    The book was very informative and I have made a few changes in how I view possible situation.


    Any additional comments?

    Thanks Patti for sharing your information for the rest of us to use.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    KC 03-06-16
    KC 03-06-16 Member Since 2015
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    "Fell in love with her"

    Her voice, literally and figuratively, were a joy. She's just a doll! And a hardass- love it! Dating detox began when I started the book on Friday. It's now Sunday and the book is done! But I'm ready to execute the best tips ever. Thank you, Patti!

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    teal Denver - NYC 02-20-16
    teal Denver - NYC 02-20-16 Member Since 2015
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    "Comes off as manipulative"
    This book wasn’t for you, but who do you think might enjoy it more?

    This audiobook comes off as 'How to Manipulate a Guy into Having a Relationship with You.' There are a few good points but again the overall TONE is manipulation. I was open about Patti but after listening I question her validity on how to have an honest, open, and loving relationship with a significant other. It's like she doesn't get it. There's a MUCH better book out there it's this one - It's Just a F***ing Date, by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola. It's also on audible, and unlike Patti, it's apparent these two have learned lessons from the trenches and are in a committed and successful marriage. They are in love. Is that what you want? - Consider that other book then. In all fairness, Patti does actually perform the audiobook version remarkably well, which is a bit of a rarity for authors.


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    Shannon De La O 02-13-15

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    "Loved this!!!!"

    Absolutely loved this book right from the start!!! Would highly recommend it for all my single ladies out there!! Thanks Patti!!

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    creativemom_05 06-14-13

    Being a mom, career woman & student (again) I don't have time to read and miss it. Driving to/from work/school is now fun thanks to audible!

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    "If you enjoy Patti Stanger you'll enjoy this book."
    Would you listen to Become Your Own Matchmaker again? Why?

    Only to recall and refine what I heard as "tips" in the relationship department.


    What did you like best about this story?

    I liked learning about her background. However I'd rather learn more about the "how to's" of getting into a great relationship and keeping it fresh.


    Any additional comments?

    Haven't seen other books from Patti on audible. Would be nice to see if I'd like the other books. One has to remember that this book is written for the female audience. You really have to have an open mind when listening to this book. I think now that I'm much older I'm seeing what Patti shares is really great common sense advice. We girls miss it and I'm sorry this book wasn't out when I was first dating. I never got such great advice! :( However there's still time for me yet to apply what I've learned. lol Only time will tell if it worked...

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