Snow Flower and the Secret Fan

A Novel

By: Lisa See

Narrated by: Janet Song

Length: 11 hrs and 6 mins

Publisher's summary

Snow Flower and the Secret Fan is a brilliantly realistic journey back to an era of Chinese history that is as deeply moving as it is sorrowful. With the period detail and deep resonance of Memoirs of a Geisha, this lyrical and emotionally charged novel delves into one of the most mysterious of human relationships: female friendship.

Lily is haunted by memories of who she once was, and of a person, long gone, who defined her existence. She has nothing but time now, as she recounts the tale of Snow Flower, and asks the gods for forgiveness.

In 19th-century China, when wives and daughters were foot-bound and lived in almost total seclusion, the women in one remote Hunan county developed their own secret code for communication: nu shu ("women's writing"). Some girls were paired with laotongs, "old sames", in emotional matches that lasted throughout their lives. They painted letters on fans, embroidered messages on handkerchiefs, and composed stories, thereby reaching out of their isolation to share their hopes, dreams, and accomplishments.

With the arrival of a silk fan on which Snow Flower has composed for Lily a poem of introduction in nu shu, their friendship is sealed and they become "old sames" at the tender age of seven. As the years pass, through famine and rebellion, they reflect upon their arranged marriages, loneliness, and the joys and tragedies of motherhood. The two find solace, developing a bond that keeps their spirits alive. But when a misunderstanding arises, their lifelong friendship suddenly threatens to tear apart.

©2005 Lisa See (P)2005 Books on Tape Inc.

Critic reviews

"Engrossing....Both a suspenseful and poignant story and an absorbing historical chronicle." (Publishers Weekly)

oh my heart...

this was a really heart wrenching and emotional book. I went through so many feelings while listening. the strength and weakness of being a woman, the complexity of all the roles one plays, the friendships of other women are pivotal to this story and each of our own lives. 4.5☆

Narrator Becomes the Main Character

The narrator (Janet Song) managed to pull me in immediately and I anxiously looked forward to car trips to keep up with the story. I even listened to it while doing housework. It is now one of my favorite audios.

This book tells the story of the realm of women during early 1800's China. Women spent their entire lives inside concerned only with household duties. It is told through the point of view of Lily, now an old woman of 80 years. She begins with her poor childhood and the days just before her foot-binding at age 7. Because she is so beautiful and has remarkable feet a lao-tang match is made for her with a girl of a more educated and refined background, Snow Flower. The two become life-long friends and enter into a relationship with a stronger bond even then marriage during that time period.

They communicate using Nu-shu, or women's writing, a more simplified version of the Chinese characters. Because it is forbidden they hide their words in a large fan and send it back and forth over the years.

Both girls take very different paths when it is time for them to marry, but they continue their friendship through letters and their secret fan. Through family deaths, famine and war we see the hard lives thrust upon women and are completely engrossed in their stories. The images of the rigors of foot-binding will stay with me forever.

I highly recommend this book. We will be discussing at my next book group and I’m dying to see what the ladies have to say.

Highly Recommended

This was a beautiful story reminiscent of Memoirs of a Geisha. It was interesting to learn so much about nineteenth century China, especially about the tortures of foot-binding. At times you wanted to shake the main character to her senses because it is hard not to put on our current twenty-century values of women’s rights when relating to Lilly. That is when you realize the author’s true genius because eventually you do see the culture that is shaping the main character’s perceptions of the world and you empathize with her and see her grow. This is an amazing story of friendship that taught me so much history and I highly recommend it.

interesting but repetitive

great learning about a different culture but found it very repetitive and slow moving. you know there is pivotal event but it takes a long time to get there.

as others have suggested driving home the oppression of women got to be trying on the reader.

I loved this novel

This is a hauntingly beautiful book. I hated to see it end. The narrator did a wonderful job.

I always read Lisa See

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

yes and I have to many

What did you like best about this story?

It was harsh and tender in all the right places

Have you listened to any of Janet Song’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

I have not listened to her before but she was just the right person for this book

If you could take any character from Snow Flower and the Secret Fan out to dinner, who would it be and why?

Wow that is too hard. There is a great deal there to explore

Great story!

I read this with a book club, probably wouldn't have chosen it myself, but i enjoyed the unique peek into the Chinese culture. There are many things I didn't know about the customs as traditions that were displayed in the book that were fascinating to me. It's also a very sweet story about two young girls and their lives together and apart, the things they treasured and regretted along the way.

honest hearts

beautiful story of what true heartfelt friendship is. the bond between the two girls from childhood through adulthood is a rare and beautiful thing.

finally a compelling, must read book.

What did you love best about Snow Flower and the Secret Fan?

Being able to enter a world I knew very little about.

What was one of the most memorable moments of Snow Flower and the Secret Fan?

fleeing to the mountains to escape the invaders.

Which scene was your favorite?

foot binding

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

The value or lack of value in women.

Any additional comments?

a must read

Truly a Wonderful Story

I feel like I know Lily and Snowflower. My heart both leaped in joy and mourned as I read the story. Truly this story stuck with me. A truly wonderful book.