National Book Award, Nonfiction, 2005"Life changes fast....You sit down to dinner and life as you know it ends." These were among the first words Joan Didion wrote in January 2004. Her daughter was lying unconscious in an intensive care unit, a victim of pneumonia and septic shock. Her husband, John Gregory Dunne, was dead. The night before New Year's Eve, while they were sitting down to dinner, he suffered a massive and fatal coronary. The two had lived and worked side by side for nearly 40 years.
The weeks and months that followed "cut loose any fixed idea I had about death, about illness, about probability and luck...about marriage and children and memory...about the shallowness of sanity, about life itself."
In The Year of Magical Thinking, Didion explores with electric honesty and passion a private yet universal experience. Her portrait of a marriage, and a life, in good times and bad, will speak directly to anyone who has ever loved a husband, a wife, or a child.
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"Many will greet this taut, clear-eyed memoir of grief as a long-awaited return to the terrain of Didion's venerated, increasingly rare personal essays....This is an indispensable addition to Didion's body of work and a lyrical, disciplined entry in the annals of mourning literature." (Publishers Weekly)
"The Year of Magical Thinking is not a downer. On the contrary. Though the material is literally terrible, the writing is exhilarating and what unfolds resembles an adventure narrative." (The New York Times)
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The surviving partner.
How to survive after your partner has passed on.
Being in one's house after your partner has gone and the usual habits no longer apply.
Joan wondering if she should tell her daughter that her farther has died. Later on the daughter still asks where is her farther as the news has not registered in her mind.
Just read this book especially if you are having issues with a death of a loved one as this writer is very articulate.
Joan Didion and her husband, the writer Gregory Dunne, returned from the hospital where their adopted daughter, Quintana Roo was in a coma. Dunne suffered a fatal heart attack. Didion reviews what happened in excruciating detail and wonders if there is something that she could have done differently, noticed earlier, to save her husband's life. Didion's prose is, as usual, crystalline, but the self-absorption in her own pain and that of her family wore me out.
She's written another one about her daughter's death, but I think I can skip it.
I have had a year in which some momentous changes rocked my own world and reading a book like this was useful in reminding me that we are all prisoners of
Probably one of the most important books I have read. Its insights are quite profound; it was as if I was given the chance to look in on someone being emotionally dissected. Ms Didion is an exquisite writer who is almost godess-like in some respects.
Being able to stand back from the pain of deep loss and garnering the strength and courage to share that experience is telling.
I absolutely admire her for that. She is truly great and I very much recommend this book.
This was a moving window into the mind of Joan Didion after having experienced two serious life crises, and anyone who has experienced crises piling upon one another is likely to see themselves - raw, vulnerable, and sometimes irrational - in her experience, and that was worthwhile. It is also, an interesting glimpse of the world of the American intelligensia. It is a good story that held my attention.
This could be a pretty good movie starring Meryl Streep as Didion.
Joan Didion is a wonderful writer and thinker. Her angst with dealing with the sudden loss of her soul-mate is an amazing insight into the thinking of such a creative soul. How strange to think we would need to subconsciously perhaps need to keep the shoes of our passed loved ones thinking they will return one day and need them. A truly remarkable expose' into the mind of a person progressing through the stages of grief and finally arriving at acceptance. I REALLY recommend this for anyone who must or has dealt with loss.
Joan Didion went through a lot of turmoil in the space of a year and I appreciated much of what she shared. However, I'm not quite sure how the title fits the story. I thought it would be a story of how she changed and grew, but much of it seemed like bragging. She talked about all her "big name" friends and how her wealth and connections got her through. I can't help but wonder how someone who doesn't have her advantages, but is going through their own tragedies, would feel while listening to this book.
I picked this novel because I had read a book by this author in college about El Salvador. I knew that she was a great writer and could effectively describe events in a way that would make the emotions of the situation clear. I found this to be true is this book as well. Also, once I listened to the short demo. offered at audbile.com I wanted to listen to more. I found it very intriguing how Didion felt and dealt with all of the tragedy that went on around her. I was comforted too by the strength that she felt in spite of all that tragedy. I recommend this book as an interesting look into the human psyche.
This book is a "magical" book that breaks new ground of the subject of loss and mourning. Her account of the death of her husband, the immediate days afterward and the journey through life without John during the following year is realistic and hearfelt. She takes the reader with her, puts you in her shoes, and manages to do this without sappy imagery. She does it by making you truly feel the emptiness and irrationality that follows the death of someone close to you. Anyone who has ever experienced such a loss can relate; those who have not yet will get a true vision of what grief is all about.
This book was nothing I expected. It was about the year after Joan's husband dies, but also about the concurrent severe illness of their adopted daughter. The book traces the feelings and thoughts of a person who is overwhelmed by too many bad things happening at once. Didion writes very well, which keeps one from straying from the content of the narrative. The reader reads well enough.
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