The only book to examine the origins of Scientology's current leader, Ruthless tells the revealing story of David Miscavige's childhood and his path to the head seat of the Church of Scientology, told through the eyes of his father. Ron Miscavige's personal, heartfelt story is a riveting insider's look at life within the world of Scientology.
The introduction of this audiobook is read by the author.
©2016 Ronald T. Miscavige (P)2016 Macmillan Audio
Even if you've never heard of Scientology, this book would be interesting. Because I was in Scientology, (for many years), I found this book especially fascinating. I believe Ron told his story as truthfully as possible, and in fact, it actually helped me remember some of the reasons I got into Scientology! However, I would never go back, because I know what he writes about is truthful, and what has happened within the group is so sad, and harmful.
I was in it in the 70's and 80's, and got services from a "field auditor". The group was wonderful, and definitely used the "tech" with good intentions. It was a great time!
I'm sorry for the reason Ron decided to write the book, but I'm glad he wrote it.
Well, the author is my favorite character, and I have a lot of respect and affinity for him after hearing his story.
I almost always prefer to listen to the author, but I think Mr. Betancourt did a good job reading this one.
I think the title is perfect as it is.
I got out of Scientology because I saw the harmful things that were happening in the organization. I read and listen to information about the "church", because I was personally involved for many years, and I know many of the people talked about. I was especially interested in Ron's story, and I found it fascinating. If I met Ron, I'd give him a Big Hug!
There are far better 'exposés' like "Going Clear" and "Troublemaker" about the so called church, I was hoping that as the father of the leader there would be far more salacious insight.. But none that haven't been covered elsewhere (and more effectively) already. Narration & writing are also really quite laborious through most of the book.. It's just ok
Yes. The author really comes from a place of humanity. The sincerity is generous. He isn't on some crusade or standing in some radical corner with a hidden agenda, so the memoir is trust able. Like Leah Remini's book was for me. People, just being people, tell the best stories with humility that is real to other people, just being people.
Mr. Miscavige had to make a tough choice of personal integrity, to share these truths and not sweep them under the rug to "keep the family name" status quo. In this, he sets a good example as a father. As a human.
As someone who was immersed in the entertainment industry for decades, I can say the fact that Mr. Miscavige was a charismatic and talented musician, and also very attractive, and he managed to keep that family together and that marriage together for so long, was a monumental accomplishment. It was not beneath him to knock on doors and sell products to put food on the table and provide for that brood. I believe they were Catholics.
He admits to smacking his wife and spanking his kids but I can tell you, in that time period, that was a norm. That was coal mining country and I spent time in W. Va. during that time. Every family lived like that. They fought, but they did not walk out or abandon their people. I think Mr. Miscavige had personal moral codes that transcended the ones laid out in the Scientology culture. And these were a matter of personal honor and personal integrity for him.
Ron Miscavige. He didn't need a leave of absence from Humanity to explore Scientology. Humanity is bigger than Scientology. And I think any reasonable exploration of the ideas in Scientology, would need humanity to rest on, otherwise it becomes another man's inhumanity to man. Which is what that culture has become at this time.
Sound. I didn't have to use the voices in my head.
I was really moved on every page.
His son is accusing him of writing the book to "make a buck" off him. His father though paved the way for his son's career. Apparently he lives like a rock star. The last time his father needed money, his son cut him a check for 100K. He could have gone back to his son for more money. So it is hard to think this was the purpose behind the book. Mr. Miscavige I think, did not want blood money. If he is making money, it is on his own back, he had to live that life. It mattered to a lot of people, including all of his kids, that he did live that life.
To think your father's meaning is all about you, is quite self absorbed if not narcissistic. His life has meaning of it's own, aside from his son. Real meaning, because his father has leaned largely on humanity, to survive. To provide. The story is really a success story. About person integrity. Infinite honor. Duty to mankind, all of them. Not just a select few in an exclusive membership.
Many people live their entire lives and never have to make a critical decision. This is a good story to know about, in the event you are pushed into a corner, to know it is always possible, to rise rise up and "do the right thing", against terrible forces compelling you in the other direction.
And when you make choices that are good for humanity, and you hold your ground on being humane, you make the world a better place for everyone. Even those who may be inconvenienced by truth.
This man has managed to live with grace and honor, dignity and humanity, among others who could not.
It is these beings that keep the porch light on, in this dark vast space called, the twilight zone.
Love all mysteries!
A father's story of his family. This book is written about a family's pain.
I'm already on my third time of listening to this book and have listened to it all the way through twice (pretty good since it was just released yesterday). It's an interesting "read" and well done so I find that I listen to it throughout the day, whether driving in my car or working at my desk.
I've been reading a lot of the Scientology scandal books so I'd probably compare it to Church of Fear, Troublemaker, Inside Scientology, the few that I own and have listened to a few times already. I just find the topic interesting and keep wondering which of these books it's going to take to wake up the membership to change leaders...maybe this one, this one was pretty disturbing. But since they're pretty much kept from reading or researching things from the outside it's doubtful. But I would like to know if David Miscavige had a chance to read it and what his reaction was. THAT would probably make an interesting read too.
Actually, I liked the prelude read by Mr. Miscavige himself and probably could have listened to him read it too. As Mr. Betancourt takes over (right after the prelude) it's a little awkward but once he gets going I like his tone and he does make it more interesting. I also find that when I listen to the book, and I've been listening to several of them on this topic by now - I pick up on the similarities or same people from book to book and hearing their names or incidents is easier for me than just reading. Plus I don't always have time to sit down and give my undivided attention to a book but I have plenty of time walking around the mall, driving in my car, or even lying in bed, that I can listen to a book.
Not really. I was a little horrified to hear that David Miscavige was having his own father trailed by private investigators and told them to let him die and not intervene on his behalf if they thought he was dying. But I've read so much of this by now that I'm not really surprised - but I was surprised that this was his own father. Just one more brick on the wall of truth about this cult.
One of the things I liked about this book was the story of Scientology as told from one of the old timers who still had some understanding of and belief in the value of some of the techniques. I don't doubt that somewhere sometime this may have been just one of the many metaphysical self-help techniques of that time, and they really did want to change the world and make it a better place - and there's nothing wrong with that - but the more I read about when David Miscavige took over, the more I realize that that's what went wrong - maybe not the techniques at all. But he definitely seems like a mad cult leader...and I keep wondering what it's going to take to make that known.
This the number one book that every one should read who have or has any interest in learning about scientology. Beautiful written by Ronald Miscavige, the father of the David Miscarriage. The leader of this cult. A MUST READ YOU WON'T BE DISAPPOINTED...... NAMASTE to Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Miscavige for sharing your difficult story so honest and open, I know it could not have been easy.
This is a great insight into the structure and mental framework in the Sea Org (Scientology's elite paramilitary group) that keeps the machine going.
I highly recommend this to anyone interested in learning about the dark inner workings and enslavement that binds Scientology's most dedicated parishioners to their work.
The book really shows the reality of the most dedicated Sea Org members and how their day to day life is different than the Scientology dictator/supreme leader David Miscavige.
It also covers in depth the harsh family shredding policy enforced by the church known as disconnection.
Having been a Scientologist myself and having had direct experience with this destructive and abusive practice I can vouch with absolute certainty that this information is accurate.
This book will serve as a wild wake up call to those unfamiliar with the church's abusive practices, and just how far it will go to manipulate and control its followers.
A good portrait of a late 20th century salesman.
I'm glad the book exists, but I have mixed feelings about the "writer".
Ron's son is undoubtedly a psychopath. But because his wrath is directed primarily at those that make up the core of the cult, he is personally destroying it from the inside. For that we should all be grateful.
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