In this compelling episode, Dr. Paul Rivera takes us on a journey from his childhood dream of emulating the legendary Jacques Cousteau to the values of growth and exploration that have shaped his life.

Through deep self-reflection, Dr. Rivera shares the importance of understanding one's values and discovering personal superpowers.

The conversation shifts to men's mental health, where Dr. Rivera challenges the societal pressure for men to be stoic and avoid vulnerability. He passionately encourages men to embrace their vulnerabilities, highlighting that true strength lies in openness and authenticity.

Nick and Dr. Rivera delve into the impact of negative online comments, underscoring the necessity of resilience tools to navigate such challenges.

A poignant personal story reveals the long-lasting effects of a negative comment, emphasizing the critical need to address childhood trauma. The discussion explores the transformative power of therapy and self-reflection in breaking free from patterns to achieve personal growth.

Dr. Rivera and Nick then explore the concept of resilience, discussing the creation of personalized resilience toolkits that emphasize the interconnectedness of mental and physical health.

They highlight diverse strategies such as cooking, exercise, breathwork, and the rejuvenating benefits of nature, encouraging listeners to find what works best for them.

Another key theme is redefining Latino masculinity and challenging traditional gender roles. Dr. Rivera shares his experiences growing up in a traditional Latino household and the expectations placed on men and women.

He advocates for collective power in relationships, stressing the importance of mutual support and growth. He candidly discusses the challenges of cultural change and the impact of his work on the Latino community.

Dr. Rivera and Nick reflect on their legacies, expressing a shared desire to leave the world a better place by empowering others and fostering empathy and understanding.

The conversation powerfully reminds us of the strength found in vulnerability, the necessity of resilience, and the transformative potential of challenging cultural norms to help you go through life with your eyes wide open.

Find Paul Rivera here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/be.act.change/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpaulrivera/

Websites: https://beactchange.com/

Find Nick Thompson here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nthompson513/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EyesWideOpenContent

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickthompson13/

UCAN Foundation: https://www.ucanfoundation.org/

Website: https://www.engagewithnick.com/

In this eye-opening episode, Matthew Dubila, a standout cast member from Love is Blind, takes us behind the scenes to share his experience on the hit reality show.

Matthew opens up about the intense pressure and manipulation tactics employed by producers, shedding light on the often unseen reality of reality TV. He reveals how the lack of control over the editing process and the show's unrealistic environment can distort contestants' true personalities and intentions.

Nick and Matthew delve into the high-stakes world of Love is Blind, discussing the challenges of making life-changing decisions under the watchful eye of the camera.

Matthew shares the profound impact of his portrayal on the show, addressing the strain it placed on his mental health and personal life. He underscores the critical importance of communication and the necessity of making decisions with a clear and calm mindset.

Matthew highlights a crucial message for future casts: understand your reasons for joining a reality show and be aware of the potential consequences. He calls for producers to prioritize casting individuals genuinely seeking love over those chasing fame.

The conversation expands beyond a behind-the-scenes look; it's a candid exploration of the pressures of reality TV and a powerful narrative on resilience.

Matthew also shares his plans to leverage his experiences to support young people navigating similar challenges, offering a beacon of guidance and hope.

Tune in for an episode filled with raw honesty, valuable insights, and a compelling behind-the-scenes journey from reality TV to real life to help you view Love is Blind, and all shows with your eyes wide open.

Find Matthew Dubila here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matthewduliba_/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-duliba-cfp%C2%AE-ctfa-cima%C2%AE-8b45921b/

Website: www.matthewduliba.com

Find Nick Thompson here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nthompson513/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EyesWideOpenContent

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickthompson13/

UCAN Foundation: https://www.ucanfoundation.org/

Website: https://www.engagewithnick.com/