• Not Nice

  • Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself
  • By: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
  • Narrated by: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
  • Length: 18 hrs and 2 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (1,451 ratings)

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Not Nice

By: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
Narrated by: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
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Publisher's summary

Are you too nice?

If you find it hard to be assertive, directly ask for what you want, or say "no" to others, then you just might be suffering from too much niceness.

In this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.

You'll discover how to:

  • Easily say "no" when you want to and need to
  • Confidently and effectively ask for what you want
  • Speak up more freely in all your relationships
  • Eliminate feelings of guilt, anxiety, and worry about what others will think
©2017 Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD (P)2017 Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD

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This book isn’t in order!!!

The chapters don’t show up and they are OUT OF ORDER! Fix this please! Loved the book hate how horribly audible is executed for all the books I buy!

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Exceeded My Expectations

Would you listen to Not Nice again? Why?

Absolutely. I was pleasantly surprised how helpful this was. Lot's of "AH HA!" moments. I'll be referencing back to the content many times I'm sure.

Who was your favorite character and why?

The author himself.

Which character – as performed by Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD – was your favorite?

Again, the author himself.

If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

How to instantly take control of your life and happiness.

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This was a real revelation. I think I'm getting a handle on controlling my time now and it feels great. I thought it would mean being a jerk, but once you understand it correctly you see it's not that at all. Great stuff!

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Aziz has changed my life

This is my second book of his I've read. He is a master at enacting lasting change. I'm not only more confident, but am so much happier than I've ever been. For the first time, I feel like I understand my emotions. And I understand how fear is everywhere in our lives even when we don't realize it. I've been following Aziz for a few months now, and the results still haven't faded. I've worked on my confidence plenty of times before, but I've never had such consistent and long-lasting results. Thanks, Aziz.

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Excellent book

This book will change your life. I highly recommend it. Thank's so much Dr Aziz

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Life changing

Thank you dr.Aziz!

This book made me realize that I was living in a wrong perspective of life

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Great insight

I love the message and the content , delivery is also excellent .
Just PLEASE stop teaching people to make lines stop at cashier registers and food places .
We all want to be somewhere . No need to create more asshats than there already are out there .
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Fearless book

Awesome book, thank you Aziz. Now I know what was my eternal problems. Why I was always alone and girls didn’t want to be with or find me attractive. Thank you again, I love you. Lol

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life changing book

i loved this book and couldn't get through it fast enough. so many things resonated with me and i knew i needed this book 15 years ago and to implement it immediately. i will never be nice again.

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Great!!!

Very real and authentic, highlights aspects of life that I didnt examine before. Author delivered well!

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Awesomeness!!

I adore people who can empathize. This book has/is helping me heal and transform my unhealthy habits of being and thinking. This book is a staple in my library. I understand it’s a process for me to see and feel the results of this book. I’m thrilled I read it and more thankful that I’ve applied the tools and knowledge I’ve been exposed to from this book within the past few weeks.

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