It’s been a rich experience discovering more about gender fluidity for Eva Oh through her sex worker community and the many requests around it at the dungeon. But it’s a process still in progress, and on this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva attempts to break her experience down. Including some pointers on the challenging balance of our choices of gender presentation, profit and personal sanity.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Gender Fluidity within BDSM and Sex Work
(01:40) - Opening My Eyes at the Dungeon
(03:30) - Thoughts On Presenting in Sex Worker Branding
(06:30) - Gender Exploration within Session
(10:20) - Presenting, Profit and Personal Sanity

Eva Oh has had a complicated and sometimes rough time in figuring out where her boundaries lie. From the mishap of falling in love with a client, to being asked about personal trauma during a session - it hasn’t been a straightforward path in her work as a Dominatrix. The process of establishing and defining healthy boundaries is an ongoing one for Eva, and maybe it doesn’t need to be so complex - but for her it is, and we hear all about it’s nuance in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
#teakink Episode, “Would A Sex Worker Date You?”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/would-a-sex-worker-date-you
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on My Boundaries
(01:05) - A Complicated and Ongoing Path
(03:30) - I Was Shocked Into Developing Professional Boundaries
(08:00) - Falling In Love, with Clients(!)
(09:50) - What Stability Has to Do With It
(11:15) - My Process
(11:39) - How Sex Work Informed My Personal Worth and Boundaries
(12:47) - It Can Get Complex/Complicated
(14:35) - Communicating Boundaries and Understanding

From installing CCTV, to office lingerie tasks and Airbnb Hosting - Eva Oh shares ideas on the wide range of long distance relationship building activities that she has implemented over her years as a Dominatrix.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - A Question on Long Distance BDSM Games
(00:40) - How I Discovered Long Distance
(02:00) - I Prefer - Service
(04:10) - “Traditional” Long Distance Games
(05:10) - How I Do Personal Long Distance
(06:11) - Sustainability for the Top
(07:15) - My OnlyFans Play
(08:06) - Personal vs Professional Pointers
(09:20) - Task Automation and Online Courses on youwillpleaseme.com
(11:11) - Tracking and Lifestyle Apps
(12:10) - CCTV and Phone Speakers, Consensually Please