In this episode of the Tammy M Simmons Podcast, we’re talking about what it really means to start with yourself. Self-love sounds simple when people say it, but for many of us, it’s deeper than a cute quote or a quick reminder. When life, childhood wounds, people-pleasing, and painful words have shaped how you see yourself, learning to love yourself can feel like work. This episode is a reminder that you are valuable, your life has meaning, and it’s time to stop pouring everything into everybody else while leaving yourself empty. Start with you. Heal with God. Speak life over yourself. And begin taking your life back.

In this episode, Tammy shares an honest, late-night word for anyone struggling to let go of what didn’t work out. This is a reminder that just because something ended does not mean your life is over. Sometimes God is calling us to stop mourning what expired, trust Him in the pivot, and move forward into what’s next. Tammy also shares a personal update about the podcast and her decision to move forward under the name Tammy M Simmons.

Have toxic relationships or hard seasons ever made you feel like you lost yourself? In this episode, Tammy Simmons shares how God preserves your gifts, restores your passion, and brings healing in the right time.

In this episode of Worthy, Worth It and Priceless, we reflect on 1 Samuel 15 and the danger of partial obedience. Saul tried to make disobedience look spiritual, and many of us do the same. This episode is an honest word about surrender, fear, obedience, and getting back in position for what God has called you to do.

What do you do when they move on before you posting the new relationship, changing their status, and smiling like you were never there?

In this honest and gentle episode, Tammy speaks to the sting of watching someone you loved move on with someone else. She starts with a loving disclaimer for those whose hearts are still raw, then offers a fresh perspective for those ready to hear it: their new relationship is not a report card on your worth, and it might actually be your head start into healing.

Through real talk and God’s truth, Tammy shares:

• Why some people always move on quickly and why it’s not about you

• How to stop reopening the wound by watching their every move

• Why you shouldn’t wait around for someone God is still “reconstructing”

• How heartbreak can be the very thing God uses to pull you out of what you’d never leave on your own

• How to focus on your own growth, peace, and purpose instead of their timeline

She also closes with a powerful prayer over your heart and a reminder that there is life and love after this.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Did I mean anything at all?” after they moved on, this episode is for you.

Mentioned in this episode:
🎵 “She’s Over You” – by Tammy Michelle Simmons, on all streaming platforms.

Sometimes the dream God gave you feels like a blank coloring page full of tiny, overwhelming details and no clear picture of how it’s all supposed to come together.

In this late-night episode, Tammy shares how God spoke to her while she was coloring a warrior princess. What started as a complicated, empty page slowly turned into a clear vision as she kept going one color, one section at a time. That simple moment became a powerful reminder of how God works with our plans, dreams, and purpose.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why you often won’t see the full vision at the beginning

• The importance of support and how it can come from unexpected places

• Being careful who you share your ideas with so they don’t poke holes in your plan

• How God gives you instructions and “utensils” step by step, not all at once

• Letting go of the pressure to figure out the “how” and choosing to just start

Recorded at 1:26 a.m. with a sick child, 2% battery, and a heart full of obedience, this episode is your reminder that God will give you just enough strength, power, and clarity to do what He’s asking you to do if you’ll move your feet and trust Him with the rest.

If this blessed you, there are over 340+ more episodes waiting for you.
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In this episode, I share the heart behind my song “Missing You Out Loud” as I navigate the first year since my dad’s passing and the loss of my brother just four months before. I talk about the tension between faith and grief, what church culture doesn’t always prepare us for, and how I’m learning to honor them while choosing to keep living. If you’re missing someone you love and trying to make sense of it all, this conversation is for you.

After impulsively cutting off all my hair, I realizes it wasn’t just a haircut it was a reset. In this episode, I shares how God used that moment to reveal the indecision I've been carrying on the top of my head and in my heart, and how He’s inviting me to grow my hair and my life from a place of love instead of self-criticism. I talk about healing my relationship with my hair, reclaiming tools like her sewing machine, and recognizing when it’s time to start over with a new mindset.

If you’re in a season where you know something has to change your habits, your circle, your thoughts, or even how you see your own gifts this episode will help you give yourself permission to reset.I also shares a gentle push to stop hiding what God put in you, stop being afraid to “sell” what you carry, and remember: your gifts aren’t meant to sit on a shelf.