Why Women Lose Attraction to Emotionally Available Men (What They Actually Want)

Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.stumurray.com/coaching-applyYou've been told to be vulnerable, communicate openly, and be emotionally available. You're doing all of it—and she's less attracted to you. The sex is dying. The passion's gone. Here's the brutal truth: emotional availability without emotional leadership creates the exact opposite of what you want. In this video, I break down the missing ingredient that separates men who maintain attraction from those who watch it fade—and show you how to become the grounded, steady presence she's craving. If your relationship feels like it's losing polarity, this will change everything.Key Timestamps00:00 – Why Emotional Availability Is Killing Attraction01:55 – The Nice Guy Trap: When Being Agreeable Backfires03:30 – Emotional Availability vs Emotional Leadership (Key Distinction)05:21 – Polarity Explained: Why Attraction Naturally Fades07:32 – Covert Contracts & Hidden Resentment in Relationships09:57 – What Masculine Leadership Actually Looks Like11:27 – Case Study: Reviving a Dead Bedroom Through Leadership16:47 – The 4 Steps to Rebuild Attraction & Trust#relationshipadvice #emotionalcapacity #relationshipvision #nervoussystem #gottman #neuroscience #marriage #men #selfimprovement #emotionalregulation #vulnerability #trust #sex #sexlife