What Are You Chasing?

Most of us have heard the phrase “chase your dreams.”
But somewhere along the way — especially in hustle culture — we started taking that literally.

In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means to chase… and how that mindset can quietly turn into exhaustion, comparison, and constantly feeling like you’re behind.

As women, we’ve been conditioned to chase — approval, partnership, perfection, beauty standards, validation. And sometimes we’re moving so fast toward the next thing that we don’t even enjoy what we once prayed for.

I open up about moments in my own life where I realized I wasn’t building — I was chasing. Chasing the idea of family. Chasing timelines. Chasing the picture instead of doing the inner work. And how slowing down changed everything.

We also talk about hustle culture, self-esteem, body image, relationships, and why being alone isn’t a punishment — it can actually be clarity.

In honor of Women’s History Month, I reflect on the legacy of Shirley Chisholm and what it means to be “unbought and unbossed” in a world that constantly pressures women to perform.

This isn’t a step-by-step guide.
It’s a safe space to reflect.

If you’ve been feeling tired, anxious, or like you’re always reaching for the next thing… this conversation is for you.

Maybe the goal isn’t to chase.
Maybe the goal is to become.