Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP207 – How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events (aka: are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?)

Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-block your own fun. Social sexual vs. DTF energy, how mixed signals stall momentum, and the exact moves to shift from talk to touch, without being creepy. Yes, there are wombat and platypus facts. No, we’re not sorry.

• Social V's Sexy: why holding court makes you look “unavailable,” the “talk block,” and how intent signals attraction better than endless banter.
• 6 Social Archetypes that Miss the Moment: the MC, the Talker, the Broad Flirt, the RBF, the “One More Drink,” and the Ghost
• Poll Results: 47% chat and forget to switch to play; 47% sometimes drift that way
• From Flirt to Close: specific lines that move things forward (“Are you free later?” vs. “Wanna go now?”)
• Listener Q: Tiffany’s husband holds court; Cate’s tactics to isolate, redirect, and actually get to a playroom
• Animal Fact Interlude: UV-glowing platypuses and cube-pooping wombats (you’re welcome, Charlotte).

EP208 – Sex Parties vs. Sexy Parties & the Dirty Vanilla Epidemic: how to read formats, avoid “no playroom” traps, and set expectations.

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP206 – Cap d’Agde & Recent Swingers Parties

Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from Babylone poolside antics to a Le Glamour Beach foam party so packed you could crowd-surf — plus two very different European events: Flamigo Events in Belgium and the SDC 25th Anniversary World Party in the Netherlands.

We talk wins, fails, costs, dress codes, and why playrooms (or the lack of them) can make or break your night. Cate also shares a real-life health check-in on managing recurring UTIs in the lifestyle and the impact on travel, play, and partnership.

• Cap d’Agde, Round Two: language barriers, daytime soloing while your partner works, poolside flirtation, and making the most of peak-season crowds

• Babylone Pool Party: why it still tops our list for “sex-charged pool vibes” (and how to navigate it as a couple)

• Foam Party at Le Glamour Beach: shoulder-to-shoulder mayhem, VIP bed sticker shock, and strategies when you can’t secure a cabana

• Flamigo Events (Belgium): great DJs, pricey drinks, token systems, and why “sexy party” ≠ “swingers party” if there’s nowhere to play

• SDC World Party (Netherlands): last-minute municipal restrictions, and how to salvage a night out

• Costs & Value: what we actually spent vs. what we got (tickets, hotels, water, and those sneaky cup fees)

• Safety & Autonomy: why Cate feels safer at lifestyle events than at normal clubs — and how to set boundaries when attending with friends or a single guy

• Travel Planning for Lifestyle Events: don’t over-commit for unproven parties, read past reviews, and always have a Plan B (after-parties, club backups, pre-arranged connections)

• Verify the format (swingers club vs. sexy dance party) before you book suites and tailor outfits.

• Have a backup plan: pre-message on dating sites, line up an after-party, or keep a reputable club in your pocket

• Mind the logistics: token drink systems, locker processes, heat/AC, and dress-down rules can heavily affect your night.

• Health in the lifestyle: proactive UTI management, pacing your play, and honest partner communication.

• Trip length matters: 4 days vs. 6 days at Cap d’Agde — what actually feels good for different personalities.

EP207 – How Not to Get Laid at Lifestyle Events (aka: are you “social swinging” your way out of play?).

• Libertine Events – U.S. & EU Takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale and France in 2026)

• Patreon – BTS photos, outfits & bonus audio

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP205 – Sexual Health Awareness Month: STI Testing for Swingers with STD Hero (and why “safer sex” beats “safe sex”)

Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts—and two experts.

Today we’re joined by Alan Brock, founder of STD Hero, and Dr. William Budd, CEO of Alliant Lab Consulting, to talk real-world STI testing for swingers, myths that need to die (no, you can’t blame a truck-stop toilet seat), incubation windows, oral vs. penetrative risk, site-specific swabs, and why regular screening plus straight-up conversations make play hotter and safer.

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• Myth Busting 101 – Toilet seats, “clinic tests are the only real tests,” and the HSV antibody red-X problem

• Incubation Windows – Why most results are meaningful at ~2 weeks, and Mgen needs ~3–4

• Oral vs Penetrative Risk – Where gonorrhea shows up most, when dental dams matter, and “safer” vs “safe”

• HPV Deep Dive – Vaccines, oral HPV, head & neck cancer screening, and when to add annual checks

• Lifestyle Scenarios – Two couples, two play patterns: what to test, and how often

• Hot Seat – Why STD Hero includes site-specific swabs and keeps prices lower (hint: they’re the lab)

• Fact or Fiction Lightning Round – Condoms, syphilis from oral, monthly testing, and cruise-week “clearance” fantasies

• Why quarterly testing works for low-frequency, barrier-using couples—and why monthly makes sense for frequent players

• The 2-week rule (and 3–4 weeks for Mycoplasma genitalium) after events before you rely on a negative

• Why site-specific swabs (throat/anal) catch infections urine-only panels miss

• HSV & HPV realities: antibodies ≠ contagious today; why HPV screening still matters even if vaccinated

• How to talk about risk appetite and recent play with new partners without killing the vibe

• The truth about at-home vs clinic testing (licensed lab methods are the same; cheaters can cheat anywhere)

• Practical cue: if an oral sore sticks around beyond a few days, get it checked

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• Language matters: say safer sex, not safe sex—there’s always some risk.

• After big events: wait ~2 weeks (Mgen: 3–4 weeks) for the most reliable results; test sooner only if you’ll retest.

• Oral counts: expect more oral gonorrhea than other oral STIs; don’t skip throat swabs.

• HPV plan: screen annually; if positive, recheck in 6 months + ask your dentist about fluorescent oral screenings.

• Don’t alternate testing between partners to “save money”—immune responses vary by person.

• Transparency turns people on: share dates of last test, where you played, and what you’re comfortable with now.

This episode shares expert perspectives and practical lifestyle strategies. For personal healthcare decisions, consult your clinician.

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