Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany are back and gearing up for one of the biggest lifestyle trips of the year: the upcoming Bliss Cruise on Radiance of the Seas this February. From liberation and sexploration to planning, packing, and prepping, this episode dives into everything we’re excited about (and a few things we’re bracing for).

We talk about the tighter February timeline, Zack’s ongoing love–hate relationship with Bliss, and what made our second cruise feel completely different from our first. We’re leveling up this year—starting with a pre-cruise stop at Trapeze and a plan to wander elevators, mics in hand, to capture spontaneous conversations with fellow cruisers.

We share why our Bliss experience keeps getting better, how the Bliss app has become a total game-changer, and why fitting everything into one trip might be our biggest challenge yet. We also look ahead to Bliss’ 10th anniversary in 2026, review the theme nights for February, and remind everyone (again!) to take photos—because cover stories need photographic proof.

If you’re heading on a Bliss Cruise soon—or just curious what these trips are really like—this episode offers excitement, insight, and a few laughs along the way.

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(00:00:00) Liberation, sexploration and letting go

(00:04:05) A more condensed timeline in February

(00:04:33) Zack’s love hate relationship

(00:06:20) What was different from about our second Bliss vs our first

(00:07:20) We plan to hang out in elevators and record conversations with people

(00:08:19) Our experience gets better every time

(00:10:45) This year we’re going to Trapeze before the cruise

(00:15:18) The Bliss app is a game changer!

(00:18:04) Fitting it all in may be challenging

(00:19:52) Bliss’ 10th Anniversary November 2026

(00:20:25) Theme Nights for Radiance Feb 2026

(00:24:52) Remember to take photos!

(00:25:35) Cover stories and photographic proof

(00:31:35) What we’re looking forward to most

(00:35:53) Taking back control and focusing on each other and our experience

(00:38:16) Being inward focused creates energy that others are drawn to

(00:40:59) We want to experience new things

(00:43:54) STI testing and Mycoplasma genitalium

(00:45:47) Other good cruise preparation tips

(00:47:01) Re-entry is challenging

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Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany are back together for a candid and relatable conversation about something nearly every lifestyle couple experiences: the natural ebb and flow of connection, opportunity, and energy in the lifestyle. Some seasons feel packed with parties, meetups, new couples, and constant social obligations. Other times, it seems no one is available, nothing’s happening, and you’re left wondering if the spark moved on without you. And if you’ve ever found yourself comparing your quiet moments to your friends’ busy ones, you’re definitely not alone.

They explore how their own journeys have evolved, and how personal circumstances can directly shape your lifestyle experiences. Zack and Josie share how they’re on a journey to rediscover their vibe, while Brad and Brittany talk about meeting new couples through mutual friends and finding fresh chemistry in unexpected places.

This episode is an invitation to reflect, laugh, relate, and maybe even rethink your own lifestyle rhythm. Whether you’re in a hot streak, a lull, or somewhere in between, you’ll find pieces of your journey in this conversation—and maybe a little inspiration for what comes next.

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(00:00:00) What qualifies as a lull

(00:05:20) Questioning ourselves when we don’t connect with anyone

(00:09:00) Consciously making the choice to relax and relieve the pressure

(00:14:11) Zack and Josie are reevaluating the lifestyle

(00:16:54) Brittany just wants to let go while Brad wants more sexual experiences

(00:19:44) The definition of the lull is the repeat pattern of situations that fall flat

(00:21:25) Choosing the situations where you have the most ‘success’ and avoiding others

(00:23:56) Reflecting on what’s happened and what’s changed since our last ‘roll’

(00:26:32) Friends with benefits and familiarity

(00:31:04) The aha moment….balancing familiarity with newness

(00:32:43) Preferences evolve just like everything else in the lifestyle

(00:34:22) Comparing is human nature

(00:37:53) Comparing your real life to everyone else’s highlight reels

(00:40:16) Your life also impacts the lifestyle

(00:44:16) Is there a wrong way to ‘do’ the lifestyle

(00:46:09) What’s it all for and what’s next?

(00:47:54) We hit our ceiling but have enjoyed meeting friends of friends

(00:50:56) There are only two things we want in this lifestyle

(00:51:46) Pressure or lack of pressure during a roll vs a lull

(00:55:18) Balancing familiarity and newness

(00:56:35) Parting advice

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In this episode, hosts Zack, Josie, and Brad sit down with Ferdinand the bull, to explore the real, often-unspoken complexities of being a single male navigating ENM spaces. Ferdinand shares how he first entered the lifestyle at the encouragement of his then-wife, who never chose to participate herself. Now eight years, a divorce, and countless connections later, he finds himself at a crossroads: dating in the vanilla world while weighing whether he can—or should—remain in the lifestyle community he’s grown so deeply attached to.

The hosts dig into the nuanced decisions single men face, including when to disclose lifestyle involvement to vanilla partners, and the unique blend of freedom, connection, and emotional intelligence that strong bulls cultivate. Ferdinand opens up about both the highs and the lows: the excitement of partnered experiences, the intimacy he builds with couples, and the loneliness being a bull can create.

Together, they unpack the dynamics between bulls and couples, the financial realities of being a single male in lifestyle spaces, and the stereotypes that make forming genuine connections harder than most people realize. Ferdinand also offers grounded, experience-based advice for single men curious about entering the lifestyle—highlighting why assertiveness paired with respect is essential, and why aggression never works.

This episode offers an honest look at what single men gain from the lifestyle that traditional dating can’t provide, and what it truly costs, emotionally and financially, to walk this path.

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(00:00:00) Good luck Chuck

(00:02:00) How I found the lifestyle

(00:04:46) Friends with benefits

(00:06:09) Being a bull in the lifestyle can be lonely

(00:07:45) Evolving in the lifestyle over the last 8 years

(00:08:50) Navigating the LS can be difficult and rejection is common

(00:09:36) I shared my sexual experiences with my wife

(00:10:17) Dating vanillas while you’re in the lifestyle

(00:13:03) Benefits and drawbacks of being a bull

(00:14:24) Bringing a new partner into the lifestyle

(00:16:25) Favorite lifestyle events or activities

(00:19:01) Advice for single males entering the lifestyle

(00:22:33) The bull / couple dynamics

(00:24:41) Lifestyle scenarios

(00:29:39) Assumptions people make about bulls

(00:33:07) What singles get out of the lifestyle

(00:34:18) Addressing sexual orientation

(00:36:05) I’m a good first experience for couples

(00:37:02) Catching feelings

(00:38:10) Being a bull is expensive

(00:39:01) How they begin and how I conduct myself in play sessions

(00:40:01) Communication and emotional intelligence

(00:43:59) A good learning experience

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