Your sex drive.

It can be a crazy ride. From highs to lows and often, you can be completely distracted.

Let's get you back in your lane!

In this conversation, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie gives you 5 Ways to Turn Up the Heat (Without Trying Harder) AND you'll also hear TEN things you can do if your libido has gone MIA.

In our So You're A Swinger segment this week - a question who feels that what they see represented online doesn't quite align with the reality they, and other couples seem to experience. Why do real life couples seem to crash and burn? This conversation should not only answer that, but offer you some hope!

And there is an incredible new report out that shares close to 250 reasons why people have sex! Think about it. Why do YOU have sex? Would your bestie, if they were sitting next to you, answer the question the same way you just did? Fascinating!

Controlled chaos leads to wet panties. You'll find out why when you click PLAY!

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Thanks to M4 Toronto (www.clubm4 dot com)

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Orgasms. What do you do when you just can't get there? It happens!

Today's conversation with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie, and John, is all about the BIG O.

And Sue will even share with you her 10 Fixes for Orgasm Roadblocks! We'll also discuss the refractory period and how to come back faster and without any weird supplements.

A new segment this week... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret: Do the "3-3-3" if your orgasm is elusive.

On this week's So You're A Swinger Segment, (thanks to club M4 in Toronto) - The Single Guy Problem And Survival Guide

"Bimbofication" has been in the news - was this your first time hearing that term? We'll define it for you and discuss the appeal to cross dressing for so many men.

Plus - we answer several questions submitted by people just like you - people who are tuned in and getting Turned On With Sue And John!

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Welcome to another sex ed lesson that nobody gave you in high school. Sex ed for grown ups with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and co-host John.

Today we talk sperm. And testosterone. And why your body is, frankly, weird.

Plus we introduce you to an incredible new app called Moanr™ with its creators, Kevin & Tracy Daly!

Moanr™ is the first privacy-first relationship app designed for your total well being. From secure STI verification to tracking libido,fertility and more..

You think you’re in control of your sex life… Meanwhile your body is running a chemical circus with hormones, swimmers, boy bits, girl bits and decisions you didn’t approve.

On this episode you'll learn how sperm wars are affecting your sex life and how your body is turning your desire up and down.

For your swinger friends (hi!) we look into the rise of soft swapping. If you're in the lifestyle, then you are well aware that it’s happening everywhere!

We get to a number of your very hot, kinky confessions this week, and answer a question from one of our listeners who gets turned on in unusual locations and wonders why.

For more on Moanr™ see www.moanr.app

For more on Club M4 Toronto see www.clubm4.com

We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and on Fetlife.com @TurnedOnPodcast (plus connect with John on Fetlife @Megahurts)

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Men... We are about to change your life on today's podcast. You're welcome!

Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John share the best tips you'll find anywhere on what you need to do in order to generate the response from her that you've been hoping for.

It comes down to being engaged, invested and interesting. If she's interested, she'll give you all kinds of signs. And we reveal what to watch and listen for!

Plus... We respond to a listener's question about BDSM. They want to know why people fantasize about it, but then panic when opportunities present themselves.

Another listener finds themselves very drawn to vintage porn and wants Sue's opinion on why it's so captivating.

For our swinger friends (hi!) Sue and John address the "I didn't expect THAT effect." Why 1,000 different people have 1,000 different ideas of what to expect in the lifestyle and what to do so you don't feel overwhelmed. Baby steps my friend. Our swinger segment is thanks to Club M4 in Mississauga Ontario (google Club M4 to find their website - currently offering $300 off your annual membership renewal!)

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Your questions to sue@sexwithsue.com or turnesonsuejohn@gmail.com

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It's the St. Patrick's Day edition of Turned On With Sue And John... Today is all about getting lucky!

Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie offers some of her best tips on what works to get you laid... Beginning with understanding the three little brain hormones that can make that happen!

Plus sex, scent and subtle power - chemistry hacks that no one has taught you, until now!

We also do a deep dive on Hotwifing after reading a new study that reveals 71/% of couples who have tried it, say that it improved their marriage! We examine some of the reasons why!

And because it is St. Patrick's Day as we record this - we look at Ireland's sex history, and find out why redheads may be hornier!

Our Naught-E-Mail box was full this week with questions about how an aging swinger can stay in their "banging form." Another person wants information on how to last longer, and John reveals that he sometimes can, but, at other times, can finish too fast. Sue walks us through some of the reasons why!

A voice note this week from one of our regular listeners about what she's getting out of our conversations PLUS she wants to know how she (and you) can become Fuck Reporters for us! Oooh! Fun!

And - Sue offers up a FREE 5 minute one on one call with you... Listen to find out more!

Thanks to our friends at M4 Toronto (Google ClubM4 to find them online). You'll find us online at www.turnedonpodcast.com where you can contact us, send voice notes and subscribe to our weekly newsletter filled with freebies!

And, as promised, here's a link to the Lucky Charms Sex Quiz: http://www-cs-students.stanford.edu/~dufour/HUMOR/LuckyCharms.html

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Sue is just back from two weeks in Thailand, where the attitude about sex work is incredibly different from the norm.

Today we discuss Fantasy, Money, and the World’s Oldest Transaction!

First up - the thing nobody wants to admit about sex work, and why so many are attracted to it.

The money conversation is part of today's episode... Including our belief that with world events and changes in employment opportunities, more and more people will be exploring sex as a career option. Sue calls it the "fantasy economy."

Plus, the girlfriend experience and why it's so popular, along with stripping and burlesque - and so many other categories of sex work.

As always, you, our listener, have filled our in-box with questions, and we are thrilled to answer them! Including someone wanting to know why people admit to affairs even though they may never get caught.

Thanks for your Kinky Confessions this week as well... Get on your knees and we'll share them with you. And you can share yours on our website (link below.)

Plus, stripping and burlesque and, on our So You're A Swinger segment - a story of a swinger club that only admits people who fit into a certain look. We call bullshit on that. And it's one more reason, on a long list of reasons, why we are thrilled to recommend Club M4 in Toronto - where EVERYONE is welcome and there is zero judgement. www.clubm4.com

Your questions, show suggestions, kinky confessions, voice notes along with links to our Youtube channel and every episode of this podcast at www.turnedonpodcast.com

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It's what people are desperate to talk about, but are too shy to talk about. Sex.

And we talk about it here, on Turned On With Sue And John!

Today, at the request of one of our listeners, we devote over an hour talking about the prostate. And we're joined by Caitlin V, host of HBO's GOOD SEX, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger: Science, Skills, and Secrets for the Best Sex of Your Life who has lost of insight to offer on the topic!

Plus:

- WHY YOUR BEST ORGASM ISN’T IN YOUR PENIS

- THE MALE G-SPOT MYTH — AND WHAT’S ACTUALLY HAPPENING

- ERECTIONS, EJACULATION, AND WHY MEN PANIC

- PEGGING ISN’T ABOUT POWER — UNTIL IT IS

And, the best and the worst of swingers club and why they work (and fail)... Brought to you by club M4 in Toronto!

Caitlin's Book: www.harderbook.com

Caitlin on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinV

New shows every Tuesday - available on all major podcast platforms, Youtube and at www.turnedonpodcast.com

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You are about to get an incredible lesson on seduction!

Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss seduction techniques that nobody has ever pulled you aside to teach you. Until right now!

On this episode you'll hear seduction truths, and what swingers know about seduction... Often their seduction strategies work, but not always. We'll get into the rejection factor as well.

Sue also introduces you to some of the most famous seducers in history!

You know that guy who wore the top hat to the party, or who had the craziest Halloween costume? Did you notice that he got hit on by a lot of women? He planned that. He seduced them!

Also today; why seduction is restraint. You always want to leave them wanting more. And Sue looks at the different things men and women often do in order to seduce people!

Time to get Turned On With Sue And John

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