What does it really mean to be average… and who decided that was a bad thing?
This episode started with a simple conversation between me and my brother—but it turned into something deeper. A question that made me pause:
Are we actually afraid of being average… or are we afraid of being seen?
Because somewhere along the way, a lot of us learned that being accepted meant being smaller.
Downplaying our wins.
Quieting our voice.
Acting like we’re “just doing life” when we know there’s so much more to us.
In this episode, I’m unpacking:
How we learned to tie our worth to doing “more”
Why average isn’t the problem—but shrinking is
The subtle ways we make ourselves smaller to stay comfortable or accepted
And how to take back the power in the words we use to define ourselves
This isn’t about being the loudest, the busiest, or the most impressive.
It’s about being honest about who you are… without watering it down.
So if you’ve ever caught yourself saying, “I’m just doing nothing much…” when you’ve actually been building something meaningful—this one is for you.
Because maybe the question isn’t “Am I average?”
Maybe it’s… “Where did I learn to make myself smaller?”

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On this Episode Beautifully Unbalanced, I sit down with TK, creator of The Secret Life of TK Dutes, for a real conversation about burnout and finding your way back to yourself.

She shares how hitting a breaking point—between work stress, shifting relationships, and feeling like life just wasn’t set up for her to win—pushed her to finally set boundaries with work, people, and even her doctors after feeling dismissed.

What I loved most is how she got creative with her healing. Without having it all figured out she started experimenting—especially through art—and within a year had enough work for an art show. That alone says a lot about what she was carrying.

We also talk about expanding your emotional vocabulary, the difference between a vacation and real rest, and simple tools like breathwork that actually help.

And somehow, by telling her story, she built a community she never planned for.

If you’ve been feeling stretched thin or trying to find your way back to yourself… this one is for you.

Connect with TK @ https://www.tastykeish.com/ and listen to the Secret Life of Tk Dutes.

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What if the things that once brought you joy were never really lost… just waiting for you to notice them again?

In this reflective solo episode, Mikita slows things down and shares what she’s been rediscovering lately—books, art, color, storytelling, and the quiet moments that remind us who we are beneath the noise of everyday life.

Sometimes life moves so fast that we forget the little things that once lit us up. The routines take over. The responsibilities pile up. And before we realize it, joy becomes something we think we’ll get back to “one day.”

But what if that joy is already there?

Through personal stories about falling back in love with reading, collecting meaningful coffee mugs, exploring art, and embracing creativity again, Mikita invites listeners to pause and ask themselves one important question:

What parts of you are waiting to be rediscovered?

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