In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Stacy D. Phillips—celebrity divorce lawyer, author, and podcast host—to talk about what really changes when the lawyer becomes the client.

Stacy shares openly about her two divorces, including one from an alcoholic partner, and how those experiences transformed not only her personal life, but how she practices law. We unpack everything from how addiction can silently warp a relationship, to why prenups matter more than you think, and the emotional cost of carrying everything on your own.

Resources Mentioned:

• Divorce: It's All About Control: https://www.stacydphillipsesq.com/my-book
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
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What We Discuss:

• 01:34 How going through divorce changed how Stacy practices law
• 02:43 The hard truths about our legal system (and what needs to change)
• 04:54 Why Stacy decided to stop playing small and start living unapologetically
• 06:40 The kind of support divorced women actually need
• 10:54 What healing really looks like when you're rebuilding your life
• 19:28 Getting back into relationships and why therapy matters
• 23:37 How to stay grounded when emotions and legal stuff collide
• 25:59 Why every woman should be talking about prenups (yes, really)
• 28:09 Letting go of control and learning to trust yourself again
• 30:55 The biggest lessons divorce taught us both
• 35:20 How to surround yourself with strong women who get it
• 39:33 Masculine vs. feminine energy—finding your balance

Find more from Stacy D. Phillips:

Website: https://www.stacydphillipsesq.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stacydphillipsesq/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stacydphillips

Stacy D. Phillips Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4o0ZPJpeUiM4oO3XyQmcii

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Ever wonder if you're really "qualified" to coach—or if you're just faking it till you make it?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the biggest blocks new coaches face: imposter syndrome. You'll hear exactly why it shows up (hint: it's not because you're unqualified) and what you actually need to feel confident when leading a session. This episode is a must-listen if you've ever worried about saying the wrong thing, not knowing what to ask, or not having all the answers.

Resources Mentioned:

• Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 00:22 Why imposter syndrome hits hard when you're just starting out
• 02:57 The real reason having structure makes you a better coach
• 05:29 Three simple shifts that'll boost your confidence (even if you're a new coach)
• 07:42 A peek at what's coming inside The Confident Coach Certification

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Thinking about getting remarried after divorce—but terrified of going through it all over again (and possibly getting screwed)? This conversation is packed with real talk, legal insight, and empowering truth bombs to help you protect your peace.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by powerhouse attorney Holly J. Moore, one of California's top family law experts, to talk about what every divorced woman must know before walking down the aisle again. We dive into the biggest legal mistakes women make during divorce, the hidden dangers of relying on monthly support checks, and why that emotional attachment to the house might cost more than you think. We also get real about prenups—why they're not just for millionaires, how they actually make your relationship stronger, and what to consider if you're a business owner or entrepreneur.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• ReNewU Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist
• Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

What We Discuss:

• 07:41 Why emotional decisions during divorce can cost you—literally
• 16:46 Let's talk prenups (yep, you probably need one)
• 25:20 Why financial independence = freedom
• 25:29 Dealing with self-doubt as a coach or business owner
• 25:51 Why you need a real business plan (not just a Canva logo)
• 26:32 Are online prenups legit? What to know before you hit submit
• 29:59 How to protect your business inside a prenup
• 31:11 The truth about what prenups actually do for your relationship
• 34:16 Legal stuff to handle after the divorce is final
• 44:01 Finding balance, boundaries, and a bit of sanity in a busy life

Find more from Holly J. Moore:

Website: www.moorefamilylawgroup.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollyjmoore/

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com