• In this episode, we chat:

  A fresh perspective on the the ever-recylced conversastions around "Know[ing] Your Standards" and "Know[ing] Your Worth" through discussion of how to begin putting it into practice by examining and holding a magnifying glass to what you are willing to endure

  What you'll learn in this episode:

  • Determining what you'are willing to endure in relationships and what its costing you.
  • The difference between well-placed duty and misplaced duty and what its costing you in relationships (and not to mention with your sanity and self-esteem!)
  • What scripture actually has to say about enduring things in life that are depleting you, taking from you, and causing you death by a thousand cuts

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• In this episode, we chat:

  What it really looks like to have a strong internal "no"—the kind that doesn't wobble when it comes to your standards and principles—and why some of our no's feel clear while others feel… negotiable.

  What you'll learn in this episode:

  • What it looks like when your "no" isn't fully decided—and why you find yourself going back and forth on things you already said were standards.
  • The subtle difference between being led by your feelings versus being led by your principles—and how that shows up in your tone, how quickly you're able to respond, and your overall clarity.
  • The four ways people with a strong internal "no" move—what makes it easier for them to stay solid in their decisions and boundaries without going back and forth.

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In this episode we chat:

Why we keep saying "let's see how it goes", what it costs is to ignore the GLARING red flag when something feels.... off, and how to start thinking and moving differently. You'll hear how to spot where you're taking on unnecessary misery and CONFUSION and how to make decisions that actually serve you—without going back and forth, without the noise, and with a whole lot of clarity.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• "Let's see how it goes" can be costly—learn to notice the red flags before they cost you.
• Focus on what you can control: your actions, your standards, and your energy-- and invite God into the process
• Make a departure with self-negotiation and begin to lead with choices that protect your time, peace, and future.

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In this episode we chat:

An HONEST conversation about how delivery MATTERS when it comes to honesty inasmuchas the message itself and how it can either strengthen or erode trust when it comes to relationships both romantic and platonic

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• Navigating "I was just being honest" conversations

• Honesty that controls and manages vs. the honesty that edifies

• Stewarding and sharpening your own relationship with honesty- both in how you give it and how you receive it from the people you trust

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In this episode we chat:

Stewarding your voice when it comes to handling conflict, frustration, and points of contention with people without stepping out of YOUR character and simultaneously, without being a doormat.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• How to handle situations where you're frustrated with someone and even tempted to lash out at them without giving into your ego/into your flesh

• Where you might be getting into God's business when it comes to handling people in confrontation and points of contention

• Being "nice" vs. being kind and why being nice does NOT work in boundary setting

• How to set boundaries with people who are frequently defensive, offended, and inflamed in conversation.

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Welcome to the FIRST epsiode of Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau (formerly known as the Self Love Fix Podcast)!

In this episode we chat:

The difference between presence and performance—and why leaning into presence can cause effortlessly shift your ability to connect to others in everyday conversation and in relationship EASILY and in a RELAXED manner.

Think dropping the act of APPEARING a certain way and being HYPERVIGILANT to how others are perceiving you.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• How God slowed me down and showed me the power of presence-- inadvertently-- through two hobbies I picked up during my year-long hiatus: baking and gardening.

• The difference between how people experience you and how you experience others depending on whether you are oriented in presence or performance

• How presence vs. performance shows up in everyday life (in ways you might not even notice or think about!)

• Practical- and easy- steps to start cultivating presence in your life

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Hi friend!

It's been... a while. I know. Forgive me, girl.

We're back but get this... we're coming back with a NEW name, NEW vision, same voice, same vibes 3.12.26.

Tune in to this trailor to find out the new podcast name and find out:

• The new vision for the podcast, where we're headed
• What we've learned from the Self Love Fix Podcast and what we're taking as we're moving forwards
• A mini riff giving a peek into the new podcast!
• The new name!

See you in the FIRST episode of the new podcast 3.12.26

xx Beatrice

In this episode we chat:

• Leaning on God's wisdom and not your own understanding
• What's going to be happening hear on the pod for the next 2 months!

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