You know what to do. You’ve read the books, journaled the insights, maybe even coached others through the same thing. But when it comes to your own life, something still isn’t shifting.

We’re diving into the psychology of the knowing–doing gap, that frustrating space between insight and action, and unpacking why even the most emotionally intelligent among us get stuck.

Rooted in behavioural theory, trauma-informed coaching, and real-life experience, we explore the invisible forces blocking change, even when we’re desperate. You’ll hear about internal conditioning, emotional safety, nervous system responses, and the quiet ways our culture rewards burnout and self-abandonment.

This isn’t about pushing harder.
It’s about creating inner and outer infrastructure that finally supports the life you already know you want.

We'll cover:

• The surprising origins of the knowing–doing gap (and why it’s not your fault)
• Why self-awareness is necessary – but not enough – for behaviour change
• The role of emotional resistance, cognitive dissonance, and nervous system protection in keeping you stuck
• Four powerful barriers that block action and how to gently dissolve them
• Why change disrupts social dynamics, and how to hold your ground when others push back
• Somatic and practical tools to help you pause, realign, and take brave, value-aligned action
• Why midlife (or any life crossroads) is often the beginning of true freedom

This episode is for you if:

• You’re deeply self-aware but still repeating patterns that exhaust or resent you
• You crave rest, clarity, boundaries—or visibility—but can’t seem to follow through
• You’ve been told you’re “so strong” for too long, and you’re ready to be real
• You want to understand not just why you’re stuck, but how to move forward

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This is the exact work I do with clients in 1:1 coaching. We build safety, structure, and clarity around your inner resistance so you can actually live what you know.

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You did everything right.
So why does it feel so wrong?

In this episode of The Scenic Route, we dive into the quiet ache so many of us feel after building the life they thought they were supposed to want, only to realise it doesn’t feel like theirs anymore.

We explore:

• Why “success” often leaves women feeling hollow instead of whole
• How Symbolic Interactionism explains the silent shaping of your identity
• Erving Goffman’s Front Stage vs. Backstage selves—and when the performance becomes unbearable
• What happens when applause stops feeling like affirmation and starts sounding like a trap
• How to begin untangling the scripts you inherited—and start writing your own

If you’ve ever thought, I don’t remember choosing this life,
If you feel the weight of doing everything “right” but still feel wrong inside –
This conversation is for you.

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In this fierce and timely episode of The Scenic Route, we unpack the UK Supreme Court’s ruling that redefines “woman” based solely on biological sex, excluding trans women from legal protections, political representation, and basic recognition.

But this isn’t just a courtroom debate. It’s a culture war dressed in legal robes. We follow the funding behind the ruling, expose the billionaire feminists fueling the backlash, and dismantle the persistent myths about biology, gender, and identity.

This episode asks hard questions: Who really benefits from the binary? Why do so many defend it so violently? And what does it mean that we wreck Teslas, but not Harry Potter books?

We draw insights from Judith Butler, bell hooks, Laurie Penny, Simone de Beauvoir, and others to examine why trans women are not a threat to womanhood: they are its most powerful proof.

In this episode:

• Why the UK ruling matters far beyond Britain
• JK Rowling, Elon Musk, and the weaponisation of wealth
• Why biological sex is a spectrum, not a binary
• How gender is assigned, performed, and punished
• The role of evangelical power and purity culture in gender politics
• 10 takedowns of the “biological women only” myth
  
  
  

See you on the Scenic Route, because sometimes the long way is the shortest way home.

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