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The Save The Marriage Podcast

The Save The Marriage Podcast

De: Lee H. Baucom Ph.D.
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Learn how to save your marriage and improve your relationship. Stop your divorce and restore a loving relationship. Join Dr. Lee H. Baucom for this impactful podcast that can save your marriage.© Copyright 2013-2024. All Rights Reserved by Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. and Aspire Coaching, Inc. Ciencias Sociales Desarrollo Personal Higiene y Vida Saludable Psicología Psicología y Salud Mental Relaciones Éxito Personal
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  • Why You’re Fighting… and What to Do
    Sep 24 2025
    Have you found yourself in the middle of an argument, toe-to-toe with your spouse, with that little part of your brain saying, "why am I even arguing over this? It doesn't matter"? I ask, because I have had that experience MANY times in my life, both with my wife and with others. It is tragic that those arguments erupt in all our lives. They are not the big things, but the small things. And that is the tragic part: many marriages die from a thousand nicks. It is often not the big deals, but the tiny things. In fact, many times, the big deals are a result of the lifeblood lost on the tiny things. Which raises the question: WHY do we have these arguments? Why do we bicker? (Check out the podcast below) And then, the second question: HOW to change this pattern? (Check out the podcast below) RELATED RESOURCES: Control Disconnect Problems with Therapy My System Article: Conflict Isn't The Problem
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    19 m
  • Feeling Stuck?? No Closer??
    Sep 17 2025
    What do you do when your spouse has shifted back toward you… some… but is still distant? More distant than you would like? Do you have to just accept it, accept the lack of intimacy and connection? Is that the relationship you are stuck with? Some connection. Still married. But not the warmth, love, and connection you do want? That is the question posed to me. Mary reports that her husband returned after a number of months of separation. But now, some time later, after his return, the connection is not where it needs to be. It isn’t where Mary wants it to be. What do you do, Mary wonders? Accept it? Make peace with the fact that her spouse does not want an intimate relationship with her? I delve into Mary’s question (which may also be your question) about what to do when the connection is still not there, even after some improvement. I suggest 3 steps for Mary (and perhaps you) to take. And yes, we start at acceptance. But that is not about giving up! Listen below. RELATED RESOURCES: Yet Connection and Disconnection 3 Levels of Connection Acceptance - What IS That? Save The Marriage System The Lone Ranger Tool Package
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    19 m
  • Getting Better or Getting Bitter
    Sep 10 2025
    I often watch people move toward one of two possibilities when a marriage is in trouble: Getting Better or Getting Bitter. One letter difference, but what a difference in destination. One leads a couple to a rewarding and loving relationship, improving and stabilizing: Better. The other leads to more anger, more resentment, more distance, and further deterioration: Bitter. Here is the irony: many times, the person proclaiming a desire to work on the marriage, to get it turned around, is the one holding onto bitterness. And bitterness has a tendency to grow, unless the person chooses to make a shift. A shift to Better. Over the years, I have watched people who proclaim a desire to save their marriage. They start taking steps, start connecting, start the healing... and when a spouse begins to turn, the one putting in the work suddenly turns... away. The bitterness gains ground. It eats away at all progress. And in the process, the couple proves the marriage was "too far gone," "too hurt," or "too damaged." In reality, bitterness set in and disrupted any possibility of healing. So, there is a choice: Getting Bitter or Better? Let's talk about the roots of bitterness and how to let it go. Listen to the podcast below. RELATED RESOURCES: Don't Let Emotions Choose Forgiving in Marriage Showing Up Empathy and Connection Save The Marriage System The Daily Better Workbook
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    17 m
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