Episode #1098

A lot of men struggle to own their wins.

Instead of standing tall, they make a joke. They downplay it. They get the dig in before anyone else can. It sounds like humor. But underneath it is often low self-worth, fear of looking arrogant, or a need to stay in control.

In this episode, we unpack why so many men use self-deprecation as armor. We talk about where it starts, how it gets wired in from family, school, or early work environments, and how it follows you into your business and your marriage.

If you've ever brushed off praise or felt uncomfortable saying "yeah, I did that and I'm proud of it," this conversation will land. We get into how dimming your light doesn't just affect you. It impacts your wife. It impacts your leadership. There's a big difference between vulnerability and tearing yourself down.

This episode is direct and practical. You'll walk away with simple ways to slow down your reactions, catch the pattern before it comes out of your mouth, and start building real internal confidence.

If your relationship feels off and you're not sure where things started slipping, the first step is getting clear on what's actually broken.

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Episode #1097

How do you encourage your partner to grow… without making them feel like they're not enough? That's the question we're digging into in this episode

A lot of men make this mistake. They start doing personal development. They feel better. They see the benefits. Then they turn to their wife and say, "You should do this too." What she hears is, "Something's wrong with you." And that's where the resistance starts.

We talk about why pushing growth almost always backfires, and what actually works instead. It starts with being the example. Not in a holier-than-thou way. Not in a "I've figured it out" way. But in a grounded, consistent way where you just live it. When you're doing the work, sharing what you're learning, and applying it in your own life, it becomes contagious.

We also get into the idea of judgment and the gap. The gap between where you are and where you think you or your partner should be. When you focus on that gap, it creates tension. When you own your own growth and detach from how it should look for them, things shift.

This conversation is honest. I share examples from my own marriage, including times I tried to hand my wife the "right" book and it went nowhere. Not because she didn't care, but because it wasn't hers. Growth has to be chosen. You can't force it.

If you want your partner to rise, rise first. Lead your home by who you are, not by what you tell her to fix.

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Episode #1096

This is a theme we come back to a lot because it matters. When a marriage is struggling or falling apart, most men don't know what their role is anymore. They feel stuck between fighting for it, protecting their kids, and just trying to survive the day. In this episode, we break down what leadership actually looks like in the middle of a broken marriage.

There's a real chance your marriage may not work out. That's just the reality. But how you show up during this season will shape your kids for the rest of their lives. They are watching how you handle pressure, rejection, conflict, and pain. You can either let this season make you smaller, or you can use it as the moment you decided to grow up and lead.

We also talk about why so many men lose their wife's respect. It's not usually one big mistake. It's the slow drift. It's saying you want one kind of relationship but living in a way that doesn't support it. It's being one version of yourself at home and a different version out in the world. Respect is built when a man can lead himself first.

This episode is direct. It's practical. And it's a reminder that even if your marriage feels broken, you are not powerless. You still get to lead.

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