The Power of Reading Together (Even After She Learns to Read)

Hey dads! Welcome to Dad Connections in 5, your quick, practical podcast for strengthening your relationship with your daughter—one intentional moment at a time. I'm Dr. Christopher Lewis, and today we're talking about something that might seem simple, but it's incredibly powerful: reading together—even after your daughter learns to read on her own. Yep, that's right. Just because she can read alone doesn't mean you should stop reading with her. In fact, reading together can deepen your bond, open up meaningful conversations, and create memories she'll carry into adulthood. So in the next five minutes, I'll share why this matters, how to make it fun and engaging, and three practical ways to keep the tradition alive—no matter how old she is. Why Reading Together Still Matters Once your daughter can read independently, it's easy to assume she doesn't need that shared time anymore. But reading together is about so much more than books—it's about: ✅ Connection – A calm, screen-free way to spend time together ✅ Conversation – Books open the door to talking about real-life stuff ✅ Comfort – Your presence gives her a sense of safety and attention When you read with her—even as she grows—you're saying, "I still enjoy being close to you. I still want to know what you think. I still love learning with you." And that message? It's priceless. 3 Ways to Keep Reading Together as She Grows 1. Start a "Dad & Daughter Book Club" Pick a book to read together—maybe a chapter a night or a few pages at a time. Take turns reading aloud or read silently and then discuss. Ask questions like: 💬 "What do you think of this character?" 💬 "Did anything in the story remind you of real life?" 💬 "What would you do in this situation?" This turns reading into quality conversation time. Plus, it's a great way to sneak in deeper topics in a natural way. 2. Revisit Old Favorites There's something comforting and nostalgic about going back to books she loved when she was little. ✅ Pull out those picture books you used to read at bedtime ✅ Ask her to read them to you this time ✅ Talk about how they felt different now that she's older It might be silly, it might be sweet—but it's always a reminder of the roots of your relationship. 3. Explore New Genres Together Your daughter's interests will grow and change—so use books to explore those new worlds with her. ✅ Graphic novels, fantasy, biographies, mysteries—try something new ✅ Let her choose what to read so she feels ownership ✅ Don't be afraid to read her school books and talk about them When she sees you curious and open, she learns that reading isn't just for kids—it's a lifelong way to learn, imagine, and connect. Quick Takeaway: Start Tonight Here's your challenge: Pick a book—any book—and read it with your daughter this week. ✅ If she's little, grab a bedtime story and snuggle up ✅ If she's older, find a chapter book or novel to read together ✅ If you're short on time, listen to an audiobook together in the car or before bed No pressure to make it perfect—just make it present. Because years from now, she may not remember the plot or the characters, but she will remember that Dad showed up, turned the pages, and made time to connect. If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X.