Episodios

  • #515 - How to Feel Your Way Into Dating Success

    #515 - How to Feel Your Way Into Dating Success
    Jan 5 2026
    This episode is about stopping the obsession with tactics and learning how to feel your way into dating success. When you are calm, grounded, and emotionally present, women respond very differently to you without you needing clever lines or forced confidence. I break down why men who overthink attraction sabotage themselves, how emotional awareness creates natural confidence, and how to trust your instincts instead of your anxiety. If you want dating to feel effortless, natural, and aligned with who you actually are, this episode shows you how to shift from trying to get results to becoming the man results happen around. Learn more about my 1-1 coaching and digital courses here: https://socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: https://socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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    16 m
  • #514 – No Sex for 10 Dates

    #514 – No Sex for 10 Dates
    Jan 2 2026
    Earlier today, I had a call with a client who was told by a woman that she would not be intimate for at least 10 dates. In this episode, I break down the evolutionary psychology behind why women make statements like this, what it really means beneath the surface, and how you should handle it without getting reactive, needy, or frustrated. I also explain what actually makes a woman feel safe, relaxed, and comfortable in your presence, and how that naturally changes the dynamic over time. Learn more about my 1-1 coaching and digital courses here: https://socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: https://socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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    19 m
  • #513 - The Rules of Dating in 2026

    #513 - The Rules of Dating in 2026
    Jan 1 2026
    Dating in 2026 feels confusing, emotional, and often frustrating because most people are playing without understanding the rules. In this episode, The Rules of Dating in 2026, I break down a simple but uncomfortable truth: dating is a game. Not a game in the sense of manipulation or pretending to be someone you are not, but a game with clear mechanics, predictable patterns, and repeatable outcomes. When you do not understand the rules, you feel powerless, rejected, and stuck in cycles that never change. When you do understand them, everything shifts. You stop taking rejection personally, you stop chasing the wrong people, and you start making calm, strategic decisions that put you back in control. This episode is about seeing dating clearly, removing the emotional fog, and learning how attraction, timing, communication, and behaviour actually work in the modern world. Once you understand the rules, you do not need luck. You just play better, and you win. Learn more about my 1-1 coaching and digital courses here: https://socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: https://socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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    25 m
  • #512 - A Christmas Story

    #512 - A Christmas Story
    Dec 27 2025
    In this episode, I share two real stories from my work as a coach that expose the real power behind prayer, positive thinking, affirmations, and where people often get it wrong. The first story comes from a recent coaching session, where a client’s relationship with prayer and intention revealed something far deeper than mindset or motivation. It highlights what actually creates change versus what simply feels comforting. The second story goes back to one of my courses, where a client followed my coaching completely the wrong way. What happened next was unexpected and became one of the most important lessons I’ve ever taught about responsibility, belief, and action. This episode is about the gap between thinking and doing, hope and ownership, and why results only come when belief is paired with the right behaviour. Learn more about my 1-1 coaching and digital courses here: https://socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: https://socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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    14 m
  • #511 - Primary and Secondary Dating Pain

    #511 - Primary and Secondary Dating Pain
    Nov 13 2025
    In this episode, I speak about the primary and secondary pain in dating. It is a concept that I have taken from Buddhism that helps explain why reacting to situations creates more pain and disturbances in our lives. It covers why we are drawn to sensory pleasure when we are not comfortable being unconfutable. Learn more about my 1-1 coaching and digital courses here: https://socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: https://socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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    11 m
  • #510 - The Hot Girl At The Gym

    #510 - The Hot Girl At The Gym
    Nov 11 2025
    In this episode, I speak about our torn nature of speaking to attractive women. I go a level deeper into how to balance your thoughts so you are less affected by a woman's beauty. I then explain a simple thought-experiment that you can use to remain mentally calm and stoic. Learn more about my 1-1 coaching and digital courses here: https://socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: https://socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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    12 m
  • #509 - The Poverty Mentality In Dating

    #509 - The Poverty Mentality In Dating
    Nov 3 2025
    In this episode, I explore the truth about the poverty mentality in your dating life and how it quietly keeps you single. I explain why believing you have limited options with women creates insecurity, fear, and scarcity in every interaction. You will learn how to shift into an abundance mindset, build genuine confidence, and develop the courage to meet more women in your everyday life. This is how you create real choice, real connection, and a dating life that grows instead of shrinks. Learn more about my 1-1 coaching and digital courses here: https://socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: https://socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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    17 m
  • #508 - They call it confidence, but what they really mean is safety

    #508 - They call it confidence, but what they really mean is safety
    Oct 29 2025
    In this episode, I explore the truth behind how men communicate in dating. Most men think confidence is about control, but what they really seek is safety. I expose the hidden cost of silence, politeness, and pretending to be fine, showing how these habits quietly destroy connection. Through real examples and honest reflection, I explain how to move from surface-level charm to genuine presence. You will learn how to speak with honesty, vulnerability, and intent so that women feel the truth behind your words. This episode is about finding your voice, telling the truth, and creating real connection. Learn more about my 1-1 coaching and digital courses here: https://socialattraction.co.uk/gary-gunn/ Join my newsletter: https://socialattraction.co.uk/daily-newsletter/ Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1 This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video. All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis. #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen This video is owned by Social Attraction Limited and is protected by copyright. Unauthorised use—including reposting, stitching, duetting, reacting, or using this content for commentary or derivative work on any platform—is strictly prohibited. We reserve all rights and will take action against infringement.
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    13 m