Forgiveness is one of the most charged words in our culture. For many of us, it was coerced out of us as children or held up as something good people do. But what if forgiveness isn't about being good or letting someone off the hook? In this episode, Alexa Kistler and Tara Howley reframe forgiveness as an act of self-care, a way to reopen your heart without abandoning your boundaries.

They discuss:

• Why coerced forgiveness misses the point
• Forgiveness as a three-step process: emotions, curiosity, and boundaries
• How boundaries make forgiveness possible
• The difference between forgiving someone and wanting to be around them
• What it means to forgive yourself
• Holding forgiveness as sacred without making it an obligation

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You think you don't belong because you're different. What if you feel different because you're not being yourself?

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Joe had an observation from running retreats: Everyone walks in thinking they're the outsider. Everyone. The executives, the artists, the parents - they all think "I don't belong here." By day 7 that feeling's gone. Not because they changed. Because they stopped performing. The question to ask isn't "do I belong?" It's "am I being myself?"

When you switch questions the world rearranges.

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What happens after awakening actually happens? In this follow-up episode, Brett and Joe dig into the messy, surprising, and often disorienting reality of what it's like when your sense of self starts to shift and what to do about it. Whether it arrives as a gentle fog lifting or a bolt from the blue, the integration process has its own terrain worth understanding.

They discuss:

• How awakening shows up differently for different people
• The fear that comes when identity starts to dissolve
• Why some people want it to stop, and others want it back
• Head, heart, and gut awakenings, and what each needs for integration
• What actually changes in your life, relationships, and work
• How to support someone going through it (including yourself)

Resource Mentioned:

• Doing Nothing by Stephen Harrison

This episode was produced by Mun Yee Kelly and edited by Charlie Garcia at FutureVoice Media.

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